(Please note that Denise Kother asked me to enter this post for her.)
In the past few days, my little world has been turned upside down. I will get very personal with you as I share what has happened. On Memorial Day, in the middle of making my potato salad for a picnic we were going to, I had a miscarriage. The days that followed have not been easy at all. Emotionally and physically, they have been some of the hardest days to deal with. It has even made me question having another child. And yet in the middle of all of this I found out that yet another couple that my husband and I are friends with is getting a divorce. I am not sure why, but it looks like it is going to get ugly because there are children involved. So in the middle of my emotional misery I found myself wondering how did this happen? They are both believers and have been married for 15 years and seemed happy. But somehow somewhere along the road of life they lost their way to each other. Now I understand why my friend stopped calling me; it wasn’t anything I did even thought I thought it was.
When my husband and I got married, there were a few couples that were our friends and we hung out with a lot. We started having children about the same time, went on vacation together, had dinner parties and spent a lot of time together. In the past 4 years, some of those marriages have dissolved in different ways. I can’t say for certain what has happened to them; however two of them had infidelity as a part of the problem in the marriages. We have looked up to these couples and felt that their marriages were strong. But it seems that all of these couples got lost along the road of life and thought that things were better or different if they just had something more or someone else in there lives.
A year ago I wanted to buy a new and bigger house because I wanted to have more children we would need more space. Well the Lord thought that the house we were in was much better, and we couldn’t sell our current house. Looking back I am so glad we didn’t. I had that want for things to be bigger and better to give me more of what I wanted. I stopped really listening to the Lord and followed my own path. Thankfully, I didn’t stop listening to my husband who kept pointing out that if the Lord wanted us to move we would have sold our house no problem. So this year I have begun to try and reconnect with the Lord. I completed the Bible study on the book of Daniel by Beth Moore. She made me see what my Babylon was and how I was so caught up in what I didn’t have that I forgot what I did have! One of the things that I came to realize during those past months is that all I need is right in front of my face and that I have to open my eyes and see it. I have a wonderful, hard-working husband who does all he can for me. I have three beautiful children who are filled with God’s love. Most of all I have a home, and as little as it is, it is mine. I have realized that I don’t need a big house to have more children, just lots of love (and patience). I also know that God is the one who has blessed me and protects me from the materialistic views of the world, and as long as I keep Him as my center, He will guide me.
As for the couples we know, two of them are getting a divorce. The others are working on keeping their marriage together. Where they are I don’t know, but what I do know is that I need to appreciate my husband and our marriage. I can’t be lazy about spending time with him no matter how tired I am or how much laundry I have; I need to give him and my marriage the time it deserves. I pray for those couples who use to be close to us and for their children that God will continue to protect them. Life is hard and it is filled with ups and downs. We all go through different seasons, some are hard and some are a breeze. I know that the season I am in right now wanting another child and having to wait isn’t easy and I wonder if I can do it. I am sad for my loss but hearing of yet another marrage in ruins made me thankful that I have Dave to go throught this very hard time with me. He may not get how I am feeling, but he is here by my side and tries to understand the pain that I am feeling. I also realize that I can weather this stormy season with Christ as the center of my life. I wonder if those couples lost that focus in their marriage or as individuals. Was it like a derailing train, they saw it coming but couldn’t stop it?
Is something like this happening in your life, do you see the train slowly coming off the track? Slow down, pray and reach out for help. We are not alone! As a mother, wife, daughter, sister or friends always remember No Mom alone! Most of all remember that we are children of God and He will help us when we lean on Him, Philippians 4:13 I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me. Draw on Christ for your strength and allow Him to steer you through the rough seas. Most of all I hope that you know and feel that as mothers we are never alone we have each other to lean on. Most important we have Christ. I hope that you can lean on him.
Blessings,
Denise Kother
Area Coordinator's (AC's) Corner
Nichole Bethel, Zone 22 AC
MOPS Convention ~ August 5-7, 2010
Registration for Convention is open on Monday, May 17th! Click on the picture.
Sunday, June 06, 2010
Saturday, May 15, 2010
Convention Update
CONVENTION UPDATE
Ta da! A Convention announcement!
We just signed the papers and we thank you for your prayers as we worked on moving, well, a whole lotta details in just a few days.
Drum roll #1: The Gaylord Palms in Kissimmee, FL (Orlando area) was able to welcome us (in the midst of many conventions needing to move).
Drum roll #2: We're able to keep the registration fees the same, so some of you might decide to come early or stay late, and enjoy the Orlando amenities with your friends (or family).
And thanks for all the great ideas of cities! You helped our future dreaming. 'Twould be fun!
And again, it will be great because of Who we'll be with: "Where(ver) two or three (thousand) are gathered in my name, there am I with them." (Mt. 18:20, our year's theme verse with my additions).
Naomi Cramer Overton
Convention Details:
The MOPS International Convention will be at the Gaylord Palms, Kissimmee, FL (Orlando area). Dates will be the same, August 5-7, 2010. Speakers and artists will be the same great lineup — Julie Barnhill, Margaret Feinberg, Donald Miller, Naomi Cramer Overton, Shelly Radic, Go Fish, Mandisa, The Katinas and Richie McDonald.
Convention registration will re-open on Monday, May 17.
The early bird registration deadline will be extended to June 7.
We are working with the Gaylord Opryland for an official letter we can provide to anyone who has already purchased airline tickets to use with airlines to avoid rebooking fees. This letter should assist you in rebooking airline tickets — it will be posted online at www.MOPS.org/convention.
We continue to pray for families and businesses affected by the flooding and we have sent MOPS materials to local MOPS leaders who are distributing supplies in the Nashville area.
Ta da! A Convention announcement!
We just signed the papers and we thank you for your prayers as we worked on moving, well, a whole lotta details in just a few days.
Drum roll #1: The Gaylord Palms in Kissimmee, FL (Orlando area) was able to welcome us (in the midst of many conventions needing to move).
Drum roll #2: We're able to keep the registration fees the same, so some of you might decide to come early or stay late, and enjoy the Orlando amenities with your friends (or family).
And thanks for all the great ideas of cities! You helped our future dreaming. 'Twould be fun!
And again, it will be great because of Who we'll be with: "Where(ver) two or three (thousand) are gathered in my name, there am I with them." (Mt. 18:20, our year's theme verse with my additions).
Naomi Cramer Overton
Convention Details:
The MOPS International Convention will be at the Gaylord Palms, Kissimmee, FL (Orlando area). Dates will be the same, August 5-7, 2010. Speakers and artists will be the same great lineup — Julie Barnhill, Margaret Feinberg, Donald Miller, Naomi Cramer Overton, Shelly Radic, Go Fish, Mandisa, The Katinas and Richie McDonald.
Convention registration will re-open on Monday, May 17.
The early bird registration deadline will be extended to June 7.
We are working with the Gaylord Opryland for an official letter we can provide to anyone who has already purchased airline tickets to use with airlines to avoid rebooking fees. This letter should assist you in rebooking airline tickets — it will be posted online at www.MOPS.org/convention.
We continue to pray for families and businesses affected by the flooding and we have sent MOPS materials to local MOPS leaders who are distributing supplies in the Nashville area.
Monday, April 26, 2010
MOPS Summit Thoughts
Whew! It was such an amazing day and the moms that I met and spoke to all added in special ways to my Summit experience. I have been mulling over in my mind what to write about and hoping my jumbled thoughts would become more cohesive. I do know there is one thing that I keep going back to in my head, ok, there really is more than one thing, but, this one thing is more persistent. Margaret Feinberg's talk was titled "Courageous Generosity" and referenced the Bible verse "God loves a cheerful giver." 2 Corinthians 9:7b I really started to think about her story about lending her stuff to people and feeling the Spirit urging her to give her possession to them, but her being unable to do that. I have been thinking about my own "giving" and how often I do so reluctantly or out of obligation. It is a real challenge for me.
Her notes in our Summit booklet say:
That little verse says a whole lot, because God isn't as concerned with the gift as much as he is with the attitude behind the gift. That means it doesn't matter whether the gift comes from Walmart or Williams-Sononma. What's important isn't even how it's wrapped (which is a good thing for those of us who stick to the ever ready, ever safe gift bag.) God looks at the heart, and he's looking for a happy one - a person who gives out of joy and overflow rather than out of guilt or fear or even mere obigation."
I could spend a lot of time mentally beating myself up for all those times I am not a cheerful giver, but after that negative thinking started dragging me way down, I changed my thoughts to focus on those times that I did give with a happy heart. I just need to expand that to more places. The "No Mom Alone Courage Challenge" consisted of three points.
1. "A generouse expression may require us to try something new, submerse ourselves in an activity that we're not naturally good at or surround with people who are different than us. Expanding our bandwidth of generosity requires courage."
2. "Look for an opportunity to express God's kindness and generosity in a specific way that doesn't make you feel comfortable. Prayerfully consider a generous act that requires you to be courageous and go for it!"
3. Living with courageous generosity isn't just about giving but also receiving. For many of us, giving can become a place of strength a role we assume, a part of the job description of being a good mom, a good leader or a good wife. Yet generosity includes receiving help, assistance and gifts graciously. Consider how giving and receiving are linked. Which are you naturally better at? Which do you need to become better at? How does receiving increase your humility, sense of community and the presence of God in your life?"
That is some challenge...and that was only part of the challenge we received at the MOPS Summit.
For the moms that attended, what part of the talks (Dr. Liz Selzer, the mom group, Margaret Feinberg, Naomi Cramer Overton) stood out to you and have you been able to find simple courage in the everyday?
For the moms that were unable to attend, was there any part of my little summary of Margaret Feinberg's talk that resonates for you? What is your fear and what is your passion?
Please, post comments and let's get a conversation started. Summit was so inspiring and it would be good for us to share our thoughts and ideas with one another.
Thanks,
Christy
Her notes in our Summit booklet say:
That little verse says a whole lot, because God isn't as concerned with the gift as much as he is with the attitude behind the gift. That means it doesn't matter whether the gift comes from Walmart or Williams-Sononma. What's important isn't even how it's wrapped (which is a good thing for those of us who stick to the ever ready, ever safe gift bag.) God looks at the heart, and he's looking for a happy one - a person who gives out of joy and overflow rather than out of guilt or fear or even mere obigation."
I could spend a lot of time mentally beating myself up for all those times I am not a cheerful giver, but after that negative thinking started dragging me way down, I changed my thoughts to focus on those times that I did give with a happy heart. I just need to expand that to more places. The "No Mom Alone Courage Challenge" consisted of three points.
1. "A generouse expression may require us to try something new, submerse ourselves in an activity that we're not naturally good at or surround with people who are different than us. Expanding our bandwidth of generosity requires courage."
2. "Look for an opportunity to express God's kindness and generosity in a specific way that doesn't make you feel comfortable. Prayerfully consider a generous act that requires you to be courageous and go for it!"
3. Living with courageous generosity isn't just about giving but also receiving. For many of us, giving can become a place of strength a role we assume, a part of the job description of being a good mom, a good leader or a good wife. Yet generosity includes receiving help, assistance and gifts graciously. Consider how giving and receiving are linked. Which are you naturally better at? Which do you need to become better at? How does receiving increase your humility, sense of community and the presence of God in your life?"
That is some challenge...and that was only part of the challenge we received at the MOPS Summit.
For the moms that attended, what part of the talks (Dr. Liz Selzer, the mom group, Margaret Feinberg, Naomi Cramer Overton) stood out to you and have you been able to find simple courage in the everyday?
For the moms that were unable to attend, was there any part of my little summary of Margaret Feinberg's talk that resonates for you? What is your fear and what is your passion?
Please, post comments and let's get a conversation started. Summit was so inspiring and it would be good for us to share our thoughts and ideas with one another.
Thanks,
Christy
Tuesday, April 20, 2010
Monday, April 19, 2010
HOT TOPICS Conference Calls
4 FREE "Hot Topic" Conference Calls just for you!
Have you wished for another leader to talk to about issues you are facing within your MOPS group, such as finding MOPPETS workers, leadership succession, connecting with your Chartering Ministry and figuring out how to get more moms to come to your group?
Here's your chance to connect with leaders from around the country. Pick their brains, find out what works for them and help each other to succeed.
Tuesday, April 20 2 PM EST
MOPPETS - developing a strong program, recruiting child care, dilemmas and issues centering around MOPPETS
Thursday, April 22 2 PM EST
Leadership - finding, retaining, recruiting and succession
Tuesday, April 27 2 PM EST
Group Success - how to get MORE moms to your group
Thursday, April 29 2 PM EST
Relationship with the Chartering Ministry
Register TODAY
Wednesday, April 07, 2010
Competition
Lately, my 3-year-old daughter, Danielle, has been focusing her attention on "racing" me wherever we go together and she is quick to be the first to arrive and declare "I win!". When she first started to do it, I thought it was cute and pretended to be racing her while letting her win. Then I thought about it and after a week of constantly competing every time we went upstairs or downstairs or exited the car or headed back to the car or, well, hopefully you get the idea, I got tired of it. I considered the idea that somehow I encourage an atmosphere of competition in my home and within my family and it left me with an uneasy feeling. Reflecting on the theme Bible verse from last year's MOPS Summit, I knew that I wanted to change that competition attitude into a cooperation attitude.
Make every effort to keep unity of the Spirit though the bond of peace. Speaking the truth in love, we will in all things grow up into him who is the Head, that is, Christ. From him the whole body, joined and held together by every supporting ligament, grows and builds itelf up in love, as each part does its work. Ephesians 4:3, 15-16
How many times do I feel that I have to make things more exciting by creating a competition? Isn't the bigger challenge for us all to learn to help one another by doing our best within our family. Isn't this true with other groups I am involved in too? My MOPS group, my Church group, my committees...my extended families. How often do I struggle with an envious response when someone I know gets a new "toy", new clothes, or a new (fill-in the blank yourself). My daughter didn't just pick up her new "I win" racing skills on the streets...she learned them through watching me and my responses. (Deep breath)
Now when she wants to race me, I suggest that we hold hands and help each other. It has been slow going at changing that "gotta win" attitude, but just this morning as we went up the stairs and reached the top, she declared "Mommy wins, I win, and Susie wins (our dog)." And I have to tell you I agree wholeheartedly with that idea. Wouldn't that be the greatest world to live in, where when one of us wins, we all win? Wouldn't it be nice if we could hang up our competition hats and let cooperation be our guide within our families, our friends, our communities, and with strangers?
What do you think?
Make every effort to keep unity of the Spirit though the bond of peace. Speaking the truth in love, we will in all things grow up into him who is the Head, that is, Christ. From him the whole body, joined and held together by every supporting ligament, grows and builds itelf up in love, as each part does its work. Ephesians 4:3, 15-16
How many times do I feel that I have to make things more exciting by creating a competition? Isn't the bigger challenge for us all to learn to help one another by doing our best within our family. Isn't this true with other groups I am involved in too? My MOPS group, my Church group, my committees...my extended families. How often do I struggle with an envious response when someone I know gets a new "toy", new clothes, or a new (fill-in the blank yourself). My daughter didn't just pick up her new "I win" racing skills on the streets...she learned them through watching me and my responses. (Deep breath)
Now when she wants to race me, I suggest that we hold hands and help each other. It has been slow going at changing that "gotta win" attitude, but just this morning as we went up the stairs and reached the top, she declared "Mommy wins, I win, and Susie wins (our dog)." And I have to tell you I agree wholeheartedly with that idea. Wouldn't that be the greatest world to live in, where when one of us wins, we all win? Wouldn't it be nice if we could hang up our competition hats and let cooperation be our guide within our families, our friends, our communities, and with strangers?
What do you think?
Saturday, March 13, 2010
Summit Lunch Info for the PA sites
Reminder that the MOPS International Summit is scheduled for Saturday, April 17, 2010. Be sure to register at the MOPS website. Here are some more details about the lunch options for both sites.
First Baptist Church of Danville of Danville, PA- Doors open at 9:45am. Registration begins at 10am. Program 10:30am-4:30pm EST. Lunch option available at site: FREE/per person includes: 1/2 a wrap, soup (probably Beef Stew), salad, drink, and cookie. If you would like to puchase lunch on the day of event, please send an email to Chelsi Shultz at hillsideshultzs@verizon.net with the number of lunch orders you will purchase. Place SUMMIT LUNCH in the subject line. If you prefer, feel free to bring your own brown bag lunch.
Worship Center of Lancaster, PA- Doors open at 9:45am. Registration begins at 10am. Program 10:30am-4:30pm EST.
Lunch options available at site: $5/per person include: soup (probably Beef Stew), salad, bread, drinks, and dessert. If you would like to purchase lunch on the day of event, please send an email to Alisha Wambolts at wambolts@hotmail.com with the number of lunch orders you will purchase. Please place SUMMIT LUNCH in the subject line of the email. If you prefer, feel free to bring your own brown bag lunch.
First Baptist Church of Danville of Danville, PA- Doors open at 9:45am. Registration begins at 10am. Program 10:30am-4:30pm EST. Lunch option available at site: FREE/per person includes: 1/2 a wrap, soup (probably Beef Stew), salad, drink, and cookie. If you would like to puchase lunch on the day of event, please send an email to Chelsi Shultz at hillsideshultzs@verizon.net with the number of lunch orders you will purchase. Place SUMMIT LUNCH in the subject line. If you prefer, feel free to bring your own brown bag lunch.
Worship Center of Lancaster, PA- Doors open at 9:45am. Registration begins at 10am. Program 10:30am-4:30pm EST.
Lunch options available at site: $5/per person include: soup (probably Beef Stew), salad, bread, drinks, and dessert. If you would like to purchase lunch on the day of event, please send an email to Alisha Wambolts at wambolts@hotmail.com with the number of lunch orders you will purchase. Please place SUMMIT LUNCH in the subject line of the email. If you prefer, feel free to bring your own brown bag lunch.
Thursday, February 04, 2010
REMINDER ~ MOPS Training Call TONIGHT
REMINDER
Tonight (Thursday, February 4) is our next Dual Zone Conference Training call TOPIC: Leadership Relationships
***For ALL Steering Team Leaders***
SPEAKER: Nichole Bethel, AC Zone 22
DATE: Thursday, Feb 4, 2010
TIME: 8:30 - 9:15 pm
CALL-IN NUMBER: 218-339-2500
ACCESS CODE: 122231#
Please call in and have any questions, comments or concerns ready to share in the last 15 minutes of the call.
Tonight (Thursday, February 4) is our next Dual Zone Conference Training call TOPIC: Leadership Relationships
***For ALL Steering Team Leaders***
SPEAKER: Nichole Bethel, AC Zone 22
DATE: Thursday, Feb 4, 2010
TIME: 8:30 - 9:15 pm
CALL-IN NUMBER: 218-339-2500
ACCESS CODE: 122231#
Please call in and have any questions, comments or concerns ready to share in the last 15 minutes of the call.
Wednesday, January 27, 2010
Give Thanks in All Circumstances
On December 23, 2009, our oldest son got up and took a shower. Our younger son got in the shower shortly after our oldest. As I started to wake up, I thought that our youngest just took the fastest shower EVER! I even commented to my husband that it had to be a record. Then the hustle and bustle of the morning didn't allow me the luxury of further thought.
Our oldest missed his bus and I was the lucky one to drive him to school. He usually misses the bus about 3-4 times a year and this was number 2. Actually, I do feel lucky to take him because we are alone in the car and can talk. We talked about Christmas, about school, but not a word was spoken about his shower this morning.
By the time I arrived back home, our younger son had left and my husband told me that he discovered why there was such a record time on the shower this morning. He said he took the coldest shower himself. As he left for work, he told me that he was planning to work a half a day and finish up some last minute Christmas preparations. I still was not at full thinking capacity and moaned that I would have to wait a good hour for the water to warm up. Off to work he went.
A friend called and I was telling her that I didn't want to get into the shower this morning and she commented that she hoped my pipes hadn't frozen especially since it was such a cold morning. My brain jump started at that point. When we got off the phone I began to put together all the pieces to the puzzle.
You see, 2 months after we had moved into our first home (we are in our 2nd home)over 10 years ago, our hot water heater cracked and had to be replaced. I ran down into the basement hoping and yes, praying, that I would not find a puddle...all...over...the...floor. UGH! The hot water heater had cracked and leaked all over.
Deep breath.
I picked up the phone and called my hubby, who turned around and came back home to see what needed to be done. Now it started to make sense the record shower and my husband's cold one. Although I was disappointed that neither of our sons had bothered to mention their showers and lack of hot water to either of us.
He called the company that had fixed our heater a year ago and had given us a very fair price. I was relatively calm as we moved some storage items and cleaned the puddle off the floor. After all, when this happened to us before the guys came and had replaced the hot water heater in the same day. Of course, it wasn't two days before Christmas. So I couldn't get my morning shower...I was planning to bake cookies all day anyway.
The repairmen didn't actually come until the afternoon and then they just confirmed what we already knew...we needed a new hot water heater. They wrote up a price estimate and my husband found it to be fair. I was so happy as I baked my cookies and they left. I told them I was so thankful that I would be able to get a hot shower tonight.
The guys never returned. They called my husband and said that they would have to get back to us in the morning. I did not have a good feeling about it.
Around 10 am we got a call from the company and they DOUBLED their estimate to install a new hot water heater and then told my husband that they would not be able to do the work that day...Christmas Eve.
Ohhhhhh, the emotions I went through when I heard all the news. Why didn't they tell us yesterday so we could have called someone else??? How do you find someone on Christmas Eve to come install a hot water heater???? How can this be happening at Christmas???? IT IS CHRISTMAS! I wanted to feel the spirit of Christmas, not feel like I was just visited by the Grinch. Then my brain started to really process. Wait! It is Christmas...I need to shower. I have laundry...dirty dishes. Do I really rely on hot water that much? You betcha!
I posted a plea on Facebook. Anyone want to help install a hot water heater? My hubby found out he could buy one at Home Depot, but he wasn't sure how to install it. We actually had VERY GOOD friends that lived 3 hours away respond and volunteer to come and help. I was overwhelmed. YES...there's the Christmas spirit. But realistically, we couldn't ask our friends to give up their Christmas Eve.
After several hours I was able to accept the fact that I was not going to be able to take a hot shower in my house before the Christmas Eve service. My husband started heating water on the stove and we washed dishes that way. I did a load of cold laundry to get some "needed" clothes cleaned.
I admit I did ask why it happened on December 23rd. I went through all the dates in my mind and couldn't think of a worse time to have it happen. I was standing at the edge of total self pity. I was feeling a bit sorry for myself. Then we had a neighbor volunteer to let us shower at their home...friends from church offered their bathrooms with hot water to us. As I started to teeter, they pulled me back. I started to realize all the things I had to be thankful for in my life. How lucky am I that I have my family, my friends, my home, heat, my God! We were going to celebrate the birth of Jesus with our church family and then spend several days with our families...exchanging gifts & eating good food. You know, I think I could even be thankful that our hot water heater broke at the most inconvenient time because it allowed me the opportunity to reflect on what is most important in my life.
So, I had no hot water...I had water. Good clean water. Thank you God!
We got some pots and heated up some water and one by one we took warm water sponge baths. Boy, if this was the worse thing that was going to happen to me....how lucky...how blessed am I?
Christmas morning we woke up...celebrated the day and headed to my parents' house. I got the best gift from them that day...a nice hot shower. I did truly appreciate that.
Seriously, I learned not to take my relationships for granted and to appreciate all I have. What a GREAT Christmas message.
Two days before New Year's Day, we went back home and a different company came to the house and installed our hot water heater for the first price that was quoted to us. I can now report that we have been taking nice warm showers every day of this new year.
Then the earthquake hits in Haiti. Families lost EVERYTHING. All that they owned. Families lost members of their families. There are orphans. People have no where to go, no where to live, no water, no food. Yet I read each day how even Haitians are finding things to be thankful for...a girl that is here in the US going to college lost her home and needs to get a job to pay for college, but her family is alive and they were able to leave the city and find somewhere to go. She is thankful that her family is alive.
I know it can be so hard to remember in our daily lives to give God thanks in all circumstances, but that is what he asks us to do.
"Be joyful always; pray continually; give thanks in all circumstances, for this is God's will for you in Christ Jesus." 1 Thessalonians 16-18
Our oldest missed his bus and I was the lucky one to drive him to school. He usually misses the bus about 3-4 times a year and this was number 2. Actually, I do feel lucky to take him because we are alone in the car and can talk. We talked about Christmas, about school, but not a word was spoken about his shower this morning.
By the time I arrived back home, our younger son had left and my husband told me that he discovered why there was such a record time on the shower this morning. He said he took the coldest shower himself. As he left for work, he told me that he was planning to work a half a day and finish up some last minute Christmas preparations. I still was not at full thinking capacity and moaned that I would have to wait a good hour for the water to warm up. Off to work he went.
A friend called and I was telling her that I didn't want to get into the shower this morning and she commented that she hoped my pipes hadn't frozen especially since it was such a cold morning. My brain jump started at that point. When we got off the phone I began to put together all the pieces to the puzzle.
You see, 2 months after we had moved into our first home (we are in our 2nd home)over 10 years ago, our hot water heater cracked and had to be replaced. I ran down into the basement hoping and yes, praying, that I would not find a puddle...all...over...the...floor. UGH! The hot water heater had cracked and leaked all over.
Deep breath.
I picked up the phone and called my hubby, who turned around and came back home to see what needed to be done. Now it started to make sense the record shower and my husband's cold one. Although I was disappointed that neither of our sons had bothered to mention their showers and lack of hot water to either of us.
He called the company that had fixed our heater a year ago and had given us a very fair price. I was relatively calm as we moved some storage items and cleaned the puddle off the floor. After all, when this happened to us before the guys came and had replaced the hot water heater in the same day. Of course, it wasn't two days before Christmas. So I couldn't get my morning shower...I was planning to bake cookies all day anyway.
The repairmen didn't actually come until the afternoon and then they just confirmed what we already knew...we needed a new hot water heater. They wrote up a price estimate and my husband found it to be fair. I was so happy as I baked my cookies and they left. I told them I was so thankful that I would be able to get a hot shower tonight.
The guys never returned. They called my husband and said that they would have to get back to us in the morning. I did not have a good feeling about it.
Around 10 am we got a call from the company and they DOUBLED their estimate to install a new hot water heater and then told my husband that they would not be able to do the work that day...Christmas Eve.
Ohhhhhh, the emotions I went through when I heard all the news. Why didn't they tell us yesterday so we could have called someone else??? How do you find someone on Christmas Eve to come install a hot water heater???? How can this be happening at Christmas???? IT IS CHRISTMAS! I wanted to feel the spirit of Christmas, not feel like I was just visited by the Grinch. Then my brain started to really process. Wait! It is Christmas...I need to shower. I have laundry...dirty dishes. Do I really rely on hot water that much? You betcha!
I posted a plea on Facebook. Anyone want to help install a hot water heater? My hubby found out he could buy one at Home Depot, but he wasn't sure how to install it. We actually had VERY GOOD friends that lived 3 hours away respond and volunteer to come and help. I was overwhelmed. YES...there's the Christmas spirit. But realistically, we couldn't ask our friends to give up their Christmas Eve.
After several hours I was able to accept the fact that I was not going to be able to take a hot shower in my house before the Christmas Eve service. My husband started heating water on the stove and we washed dishes that way. I did a load of cold laundry to get some "needed" clothes cleaned.
I admit I did ask why it happened on December 23rd. I went through all the dates in my mind and couldn't think of a worse time to have it happen. I was standing at the edge of total self pity. I was feeling a bit sorry for myself. Then we had a neighbor volunteer to let us shower at their home...friends from church offered their bathrooms with hot water to us. As I started to teeter, they pulled me back. I started to realize all the things I had to be thankful for in my life. How lucky am I that I have my family, my friends, my home, heat, my God! We were going to celebrate the birth of Jesus with our church family and then spend several days with our families...exchanging gifts & eating good food. You know, I think I could even be thankful that our hot water heater broke at the most inconvenient time because it allowed me the opportunity to reflect on what is most important in my life.
So, I had no hot water...I had water. Good clean water. Thank you God!
We got some pots and heated up some water and one by one we took warm water sponge baths. Boy, if this was the worse thing that was going to happen to me....how lucky...how blessed am I?
Christmas morning we woke up...celebrated the day and headed to my parents' house. I got the best gift from them that day...a nice hot shower. I did truly appreciate that.
Seriously, I learned not to take my relationships for granted and to appreciate all I have. What a GREAT Christmas message.
Two days before New Year's Day, we went back home and a different company came to the house and installed our hot water heater for the first price that was quoted to us. I can now report that we have been taking nice warm showers every day of this new year.
Then the earthquake hits in Haiti. Families lost EVERYTHING. All that they owned. Families lost members of their families. There are orphans. People have no where to go, no where to live, no water, no food. Yet I read each day how even Haitians are finding things to be thankful for...a girl that is here in the US going to college lost her home and needs to get a job to pay for college, but her family is alive and they were able to leave the city and find somewhere to go. She is thankful that her family is alive.
I know it can be so hard to remember in our daily lives to give God thanks in all circumstances, but that is what he asks us to do.
"Be joyful always; pray continually; give thanks in all circumstances, for this is God's will for you in Christ Jesus." 1 Thessalonians 16-18
Dual Zone Training Conference Call ~ February 4th
Our next Dual Zone Training Conference Call is scheduled for Thursday, February 4, 2010
TOPIC: Leadership Relationships
***For ALL Steering Team Leaders***
SPEAKER: Nichole Bethel, AC Zone 22
DATE: Thursday, Feb 4, 2010
TIME: 8:30 - 9:15 pm
CALL-IN NUMBER: 218-339-2500
ACCESS CODE: 122231#
Please share this information with your whole Steering Team. Call in and support our Zone Area Coordinator, Nichole. There will be time after Nichole speaks for questions, comments, and concerns.
TOPIC: Leadership Relationships
***For ALL Steering Team Leaders***
SPEAKER: Nichole Bethel, AC Zone 22
DATE: Thursday, Feb 4, 2010
TIME: 8:30 - 9:15 pm
CALL-IN NUMBER: 218-339-2500
ACCESS CODE: 122231#
Please share this information with your whole Steering Team. Call in and support our Zone Area Coordinator, Nichole. There will be time after Nichole speaks for questions, comments, and concerns.
Thursday, December 31, 2009
The 10th year...
All through December, I have been reflecting on the year 2009. It was a highlight year for me because my oldest children, three girls, turned 10 yrs old which means I've been on "Planet Moms" for a whole decade. Our family have been affectionately calling it "the 10th year", thanks to a friend who made the girls their own personal scrap book for their birthday with that as the title.
The 10th year did not come quickly. I distinctly remember thinking in the baby years that our diaper days would never end. I remember thinking in the toddler years that my children would never finish a meal where most of it did not end up on the floor. As we entered the school age years, just over five years ago, I thought I was on the road to success...they were all successfully potty trained, they helped me prepare meals, and were independent with completing their assigned chores around the house which made my job of mothering easier. However, homework and discussions around real life issues seemed to be the new season of it will never end.
I am more than ever aware that my husband and I are influencing these little lives to shape them into people who love the Lord for themselves and will commit their lives to advance God's kingdom. This reality makes me want to will time to slow down. I take every opportunity I get to stop and be "together" with my kids. Together, we read long books, take adventure hikes with no idea where we'll end up, and bake up some of the most amazing treats you've ever tasted. I know this next decade will speed by and it won't be long before they are graduating high school, walking down aisles committing to marriage, and achieving their life dreams. YIKES!!!
My saving grace comes from one of my favorite bible verses, Matt 6:33-34 says, "But seek first his kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well. Therefore do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about itself. Each day has enough trouble of its own." I am humbly reminded in these verses that God will guide my steps during every stage of mothering. Knowing this brings forth a peace and comfort that can only come from our heavenly father. I am very grateful for this past decade and look forward to what the year 2010 will bring as my husband and I head into our next decade of parenting. "Together" I know we can make it! Write and share what you are looking forward to in the year 2010.
I pray you all have a blessed New Year,
Nichole, your AC
The 10th year did not come quickly. I distinctly remember thinking in the baby years that our diaper days would never end. I remember thinking in the toddler years that my children would never finish a meal where most of it did not end up on the floor. As we entered the school age years, just over five years ago, I thought I was on the road to success...they were all successfully potty trained, they helped me prepare meals, and were independent with completing their assigned chores around the house which made my job of mothering easier. However, homework and discussions around real life issues seemed to be the new season of it will never end.
I am more than ever aware that my husband and I are influencing these little lives to shape them into people who love the Lord for themselves and will commit their lives to advance God's kingdom. This reality makes me want to will time to slow down. I take every opportunity I get to stop and be "together" with my kids. Together, we read long books, take adventure hikes with no idea where we'll end up, and bake up some of the most amazing treats you've ever tasted. I know this next decade will speed by and it won't be long before they are graduating high school, walking down aisles committing to marriage, and achieving their life dreams. YIKES!!!
My saving grace comes from one of my favorite bible verses, Matt 6:33-34 says, "But seek first his kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well. Therefore do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about itself. Each day has enough trouble of its own." I am humbly reminded in these verses that God will guide my steps during every stage of mothering. Knowing this brings forth a peace and comfort that can only come from our heavenly father. I am very grateful for this past decade and look forward to what the year 2010 will bring as my husband and I head into our next decade of parenting. "Together" I know we can make it! Write and share what you are looking forward to in the year 2010.
I pray you all have a blessed New Year,
Nichole, your AC
Friday, December 04, 2009
Sara Groves ~ O Holy Night Tour
Ok, so I am a big fan of Sara Groves and I missed having her perform at the MOPS Convention this year. (I guess they have to change it up...) Anyway, if there is someone out there that is a bigger fan it would have to be my husband, Dan. So, lucky me, I have seen Sara perform at two MOPS Conventions and at the last one I saw her, we were able to go to a dinner where Sara shared her testimony. I feel bad that Dan hasn't been able to experience it.
Sara was in Scotch Plains NJ last night (December 3rd)at Evangel Church and Dan and I were there. For those of you who go to concerts, you know how expensive it can get. The tickets for this concert were free. The concert was in a very comfortable (I don't think there were any bad seats) church sanctuary. It was a very intimate concert. Sara keeps her whole family involved too. Her hubby, Troy or "Mr. Sara Groves" as he called himself, introduced her and did all the "extra" sounds and noises for the songs. (If you've heard "Toy Packaging" you know there is some hammering and an electric screwdriver.) Her younger son, Toby, spoke during one of the songs, "It's True" (it is on her Christmas "O Holy Night" cd) and older son, Kirby, came on stage and shared his experience of visiting Rwanda with his parents over the summer and meeting his sponsored child. Their youngest daughter sat in the audience and was well-behaved. During intermission, the three kids were playing hide-and-seek in the pews and hid in our pew. I momentarily wished that we had brought Danielle because she would have joined right in on the fun. There were a lot of families and it was very kid friendly.
The concert started at 8 pm and the church's worship team performed some songs to warm up the audience. Sara was soon out with her band in their matching argyl sweater vests. I jokingly told Dan that I would be sure to get him one for Christmas this year. She mostly sang songs from her Christmas cd, but did sing some songs off of her newest "Fireflies and Songs" cd too.
So many moments within the concert that I want to comment on, but it is hard to choose one. I just felt how authentic Sara is with her life and her beliefs. She and her family are supporting Food for the Hungry and had information packets on children from the Rwandan village for people to sponsor. Sara reminded us that Christmas is about Jesus and I know I was grateful for the opportunity to sit and reflect on that. Too often in the past, Christmas has become all about shopping for me. I have been making a conscious effort to keep the focus of Christmas on Jesus and to be an example for my children.
I thank God that Dan and I had the opportunity to take a week day night and drive about an hour to the concert. It was a late night for us, we got home after 11, but it refreshed my soul and strengthened my resolve to truly celebrate Christmas this year.
One of the most interesting aspects of the concert for me didn't involve Sara directly. We sat on the side of the church behind the hearing impaired section. There were two women who each took turns signing the whole concert. At times I found myself fascinated by the signing. It was beautiful. I was really touched by it and especially appreciated the sign for angels singing. I feel as though I experienced an added dimension to a musical concert that I had never had. Seriously, words seem inadequate to describe the beauty. I was in awe and captivated.
Check out "I Saw What I Saw"
Also, for a lighter song, check out "Setting Up the Pins"
Hoping that you too can celebrate the true meaning of Christmas this year with your friends & family. If you attended the concert, please add your comments, I barely scratched the surface with my comments.
Christy
Sara was in Scotch Plains NJ last night (December 3rd)at Evangel Church and Dan and I were there. For those of you who go to concerts, you know how expensive it can get. The tickets for this concert were free. The concert was in a very comfortable (I don't think there were any bad seats) church sanctuary. It was a very intimate concert. Sara keeps her whole family involved too. Her hubby, Troy or "Mr. Sara Groves" as he called himself, introduced her and did all the "extra" sounds and noises for the songs. (If you've heard "Toy Packaging" you know there is some hammering and an electric screwdriver.) Her younger son, Toby, spoke during one of the songs, "It's True" (it is on her Christmas "O Holy Night" cd) and older son, Kirby, came on stage and shared his experience of visiting Rwanda with his parents over the summer and meeting his sponsored child. Their youngest daughter sat in the audience and was well-behaved. During intermission, the three kids were playing hide-and-seek in the pews and hid in our pew. I momentarily wished that we had brought Danielle because she would have joined right in on the fun. There were a lot of families and it was very kid friendly.
The concert started at 8 pm and the church's worship team performed some songs to warm up the audience. Sara was soon out with her band in their matching argyl sweater vests. I jokingly told Dan that I would be sure to get him one for Christmas this year. She mostly sang songs from her Christmas cd, but did sing some songs off of her newest "Fireflies and Songs" cd too.
So many moments within the concert that I want to comment on, but it is hard to choose one. I just felt how authentic Sara is with her life and her beliefs. She and her family are supporting Food for the Hungry and had information packets on children from the Rwandan village for people to sponsor. Sara reminded us that Christmas is about Jesus and I know I was grateful for the opportunity to sit and reflect on that. Too often in the past, Christmas has become all about shopping for me. I have been making a conscious effort to keep the focus of Christmas on Jesus and to be an example for my children.
I thank God that Dan and I had the opportunity to take a week day night and drive about an hour to the concert. It was a late night for us, we got home after 11, but it refreshed my soul and strengthened my resolve to truly celebrate Christmas this year.
One of the most interesting aspects of the concert for me didn't involve Sara directly. We sat on the side of the church behind the hearing impaired section. There were two women who each took turns signing the whole concert. At times I found myself fascinated by the signing. It was beautiful. I was really touched by it and especially appreciated the sign for angels singing. I feel as though I experienced an added dimension to a musical concert that I had never had. Seriously, words seem inadequate to describe the beauty. I was in awe and captivated.
Check out "I Saw What I Saw"
Also, for a lighter song, check out "Setting Up the Pins"
Hoping that you too can celebrate the true meaning of Christmas this year with your friends & family. If you attended the concert, please add your comments, I barely scratched the surface with my comments.
Christy
Monday, November 23, 2009
REMINDER: Conference Call TONIGHT
Hello MOPS Leaders!
Before you take a much deserved break for Thanksgiving with your family and friends, why not spend a bit of time with your MOPS co-leaders and friends?
I am talking about our DUAL ZONE CONFERENCE CALL for all leaders of Zones 14 and 22We look forward to hearing your voices on the call Monday evening. Here is the topic and call-in information you’ll need to join us on the call.
CROSS ZONE CONFERENCE CALL
FOR ALL LEADERS IN ZONE 14 & ZONE 22
When: Monday, November 23, 2009
Time: 8:30 until 9:15 PM
Topic: “Answer the Phone: It’s God Calling!”
Call Leaders:
Gayle Stahlman, AC Zone 14
Carrie Burtt, CC Zone 14
Call-in Number 712-432-0750
Access Code 313034#
Limited to the first 100 callers
We hope you will take time to join us!
Before you take a much deserved break for Thanksgiving with your family and friends, why not spend a bit of time with your MOPS co-leaders and friends?
I am talking about our DUAL ZONE CONFERENCE CALL for all leaders of Zones 14 and 22We look forward to hearing your voices on the call Monday evening. Here is the topic and call-in information you’ll need to join us on the call.
CROSS ZONE CONFERENCE CALL
FOR ALL LEADERS IN ZONE 14 & ZONE 22
When: Monday, November 23, 2009
Time: 8:30 until 9:15 PM
Topic: “Answer the Phone: It’s God Calling!”
Call Leaders:
Gayle Stahlman, AC Zone 14
Carrie Burtt, CC Zone 14
Call-in Number 712-432-0750
Access Code 313034#
Limited to the first 100 callers
We hope you will take time to join us!
Saturday, November 21, 2009
Operation Christmas Child Shoebox Inspiration
Hi All,
Nichole Bethel, our Zone 22 Area Coordinator, and her daughter, Olivia were on "Good Day Philadelphia" this past week because Olivia helped to collect 535 boxes. Olivia collects shoeboxes for Operation Christmas Child for her BIRTHDAY! What a great example for all of us.
Thanks,
Christy
Nichole Bethel, our Zone 22 Area Coordinator, and her daughter, Olivia were on "Good Day Philadelphia" this past week because Olivia helped to collect 535 boxes. Olivia collects shoeboxes for Operation Christmas Child for her BIRTHDAY! What a great example for all of us.
Thanks,
Christy
Monday, November 16, 2009
She Did What She Could (SDWSC)
She Did What She Could: Five words of Jesus that will change your life is the title of Elisa Morgan’s latest book. I was fortunate enough to purchase a copy at the MOPS Convention and read it on my plane rides home. The title comes from Mark 14:3-9 and I think it is important enough to include it here:
Jesus was in Bethany at the home of Simon, a man who had previously had leprosy. While he was eating, a woman came in with a beautiful alabaster jar of expensive perfume made from the essence of nard. She broke open the jar and poured the perfume over his head.
Some of those at the table were indignant. “why waste such expensive perfume?” they asked. “It could have been sold for a year’s wages and the money given to the poor!” So they scolded her harshly.
But Jesus replied, “Leave her alone. Why criticize her for doing such a good thing to me? You will always have the poor among you, and you can help them wheneve you want to. But you will not always have me. She did what she could and has anointed my body for burial ahead of time. I tell you the truth, wherever the Good News is preached throughout the world, this woman’s deed will be remembered and discussed.
Jesus said “She Did What She Could”. Elisa Morgan introduced that phrase to all the MOPS Convention Attendees last year with her SDWSC pin. I really liked the idea of delving so deeply into that one phrase. The book is divided into 3 parts. Part one takes each word of She Did What She Could and examines it. Part 2 asks and examines each word of the question “What If I Did What I Could?”. Part 3 then finishes by asking and examining the We in the question “What If We Did What We Could?”
I have definitely read that passage from Mark in the Bible before, but never have I had someone focus my attention on that phrase from Jesus…”She did what she could.” There is some comfort there for me now after reading the book and a call to action. I know I can’t do EVERYTHING. Some days I get that SUPERMOM syndrome and really try to do it all and I end up not getting anything done; however, if I find what I am suppose to do and focus on that, then perhaps I too can hear Jesus say about me that “she did what she could”?
From the back of the book”
Most of us care. We really do. We care about poverty and injustice, about orphans and the sick. And yet, weighed down by everyday tasks of bringing home a paycheck, putting food on the table, and shuttling kids around, we question our ability to make a difference. Bombarded by one celebrity help-the-world-athon after another, we shrug our shoulders in futility and do absolutely nothing.
But what if we did….
Something?
Just one thing.
The thing that matters more than anything else in that solitary moment.
What if we did just that?
What if?
If nothing else, She Did What She Could encourages us to be aware of our actions and how they reflect Jesus to others.
Have you read it or want to read it? Share your comments and questions here.
Thanks,
Christy
Jesus was in Bethany at the home of Simon, a man who had previously had leprosy. While he was eating, a woman came in with a beautiful alabaster jar of expensive perfume made from the essence of nard. She broke open the jar and poured the perfume over his head.
Some of those at the table were indignant. “why waste such expensive perfume?” they asked. “It could have been sold for a year’s wages and the money given to the poor!” So they scolded her harshly.
But Jesus replied, “Leave her alone. Why criticize her for doing such a good thing to me? You will always have the poor among you, and you can help them wheneve you want to. But you will not always have me. She did what she could and has anointed my body for burial ahead of time. I tell you the truth, wherever the Good News is preached throughout the world, this woman’s deed will be remembered and discussed.
Jesus said “She Did What She Could”. Elisa Morgan introduced that phrase to all the MOPS Convention Attendees last year with her SDWSC pin. I really liked the idea of delving so deeply into that one phrase. The book is divided into 3 parts. Part one takes each word of She Did What She Could and examines it. Part 2 asks and examines each word of the question “What If I Did What I Could?”. Part 3 then finishes by asking and examining the We in the question “What If We Did What We Could?”
I have definitely read that passage from Mark in the Bible before, but never have I had someone focus my attention on that phrase from Jesus…”She did what she could.” There is some comfort there for me now after reading the book and a call to action. I know I can’t do EVERYTHING. Some days I get that SUPERMOM syndrome and really try to do it all and I end up not getting anything done; however, if I find what I am suppose to do and focus on that, then perhaps I too can hear Jesus say about me that “she did what she could”?
From the back of the book”
Most of us care. We really do. We care about poverty and injustice, about orphans and the sick. And yet, weighed down by everyday tasks of bringing home a paycheck, putting food on the table, and shuttling kids around, we question our ability to make a difference. Bombarded by one celebrity help-the-world-athon after another, we shrug our shoulders in futility and do absolutely nothing.
But what if we did….
Something?
Just one thing.
The thing that matters more than anything else in that solitary moment.
What if we did just that?
What if?
If nothing else, She Did What She Could encourages us to be aware of our actions and how they reflect Jesus to others.
Have you read it or want to read it? Share your comments and questions here.
Thanks,
Christy
Saturday, October 31, 2009
Events Going on in Our Zone
The holidays are quickly approaching! Below are some exciting events that are guaranteed to make you sing, " It's beginning to feel a lot like Christmas..."
The Go Fish Guys are coming to our Zone in 2 weeks!
Date: Saturday, November 14, 2009
Time: 2pm
For more information, call the church at 973-427-6960 or go to the following websites: www.hawthornegospel.com , www.gofishguys.com , www.itickets.com
Sara Gorves is coming to our Zone this December at two locations!
Sara will present her "O Holy Night" Christmas Concert:
Venue: Evangel Church, Scotch Plains, NJ
Date: Thursday, December 3, 2009
Time: 8pm (doors open at 7:30pm)
For more information, go to www.evangel.com
Venue: Hershey Free Church, Hershey, PA
Date: Tuesday, December 8, 2009
Time: 7:30pm (doors open at 6:30pm)
For more information, go to www.hersheyfree.com
If you know of other exciting events around our Zone, please share them here.
The Go Fish Guys are coming to our Zone in 2 weeks!
Go Fish Christmas Concert
Venue: Hawthorne Gospel Church, Hawthorne, NJDate: Saturday, November 14, 2009
Time: 2pm
For more information, call the church at 973-427-6960 or go to the following websites: www.hawthornegospel.com , www.gofishguys.com , www.itickets.com
Sara Gorves is coming to our Zone this December at two locations!
Sara will present her "O Holy Night" Christmas Concert:
Venue: Evangel Church, Scotch Plains, NJ
Date: Thursday, December 3, 2009
Time: 8pm (doors open at 7:30pm)
For more information, go to www.evangel.com
Venue: Hershey Free Church, Hershey, PA
Date: Tuesday, December 8, 2009
Time: 7:30pm (doors open at 6:30pm)
For more information, go to www.hersheyfree.com
If you know of other exciting events around our Zone, please share them here.
Tuesday, October 27, 2009
reflections on beads, bracelets, and imperfection
When my MOPS group last met, we had a craft that involved making a bracelet using beads of a variety of colors and sizes and wire. Our Creative Activities Lead, Jill, told us the different colors of beads represented different things: pink/purple represents friends, green represents family, blue represents community, red represents self, and white represents God. One of the moms, Leah Weikel, sent this email to our Discussion Group later that day about the craft and I thought it inspirational. I got her ok to share it on the blog.
I have to admit that the perfectionist in me wanted to keep me from attempting the craft today--saying, "If you start to strand the beads now, you won't get it perfect. You need to categorize the beads first, according to size and shape and then find the pattern. It's really quite simple." However, the practical side of me said, "If you don't start now, it will never get done." So I began stranding beads together, trying to make an eclectic-but-elegant pattern. I didn't seem to find my groove, as I watched other moms quickly and talentedly express themselves through beadwork. Then I stopped thinking about it, and I just began to strand the beads, one by one, not paying too much attention to color and size, just kind of winging it. Then it happened. I found my pattern-- or my psuedo-pattern. It was more of a general theme than an actual pattern, and I managed to tell my inner perfectionist to, in nice terms, "be quiet." I wasn't able to finish my creation in that comfy, blue table-clothed room, so I had to take it home with me, hoping that all of my work thus far wouldn't come apart, unravel and flood my purse with tiny, shiny raindrops of glass.
I was lucky. I managed to make it to my parents' house, with both kids asleep in their car seats. As soon as I took my tiny tots to their beds at Nana's house, I was back at it-- back in the flow of the rhythm of the beads. It didn't take me long to finish. And, I was actually happy with my creation. Then I began to reflect on the meaning and purpose behind the craft. I looked at the juxtaposed beads, and then looked at their perspective meanings. Every so often I saw a large, red bead. This reminded me of last week's lesson, that in the middle of all of these important relationships I have, there is me. And it's ok-- even good--to take some time for me, in order to be a better mom, a better wife, a better friend. There is also a great big green bead on my bracelet, swirled with gold, reminding me of how precious my family is. The enormity of this bead also reminded me of how much time it takes to be a mommy, too! And every so often there are these simple, white beads, reminding me of how important it is to be refreshed by the Lord. And the fact that all of these beads are connected reminded me that we are all connected to each other, mom to friend, friend to family, family to community, community to God.
Hopefully you were able to enjoy the craft and were able to learn from a pile of beads and a piece of wire.
May blessings fall upon you like raindrops,
leah
I have to admit that the perfectionist in me wanted to keep me from attempting the craft today--saying, "If you start to strand the beads now, you won't get it perfect. You need to categorize the beads first, according to size and shape and then find the pattern. It's really quite simple." However, the practical side of me said, "If you don't start now, it will never get done." So I began stranding beads together, trying to make an eclectic-but-elegant pattern. I didn't seem to find my groove, as I watched other moms quickly and talentedly express themselves through beadwork. Then I stopped thinking about it, and I just began to strand the beads, one by one, not paying too much attention to color and size, just kind of winging it. Then it happened. I found my pattern-- or my psuedo-pattern. It was more of a general theme than an actual pattern, and I managed to tell my inner perfectionist to, in nice terms, "be quiet." I wasn't able to finish my creation in that comfy, blue table-clothed room, so I had to take it home with me, hoping that all of my work thus far wouldn't come apart, unravel and flood my purse with tiny, shiny raindrops of glass.
I was lucky. I managed to make it to my parents' house, with both kids asleep in their car seats. As soon as I took my tiny tots to their beds at Nana's house, I was back at it-- back in the flow of the rhythm of the beads. It didn't take me long to finish. And, I was actually happy with my creation. Then I began to reflect on the meaning and purpose behind the craft. I looked at the juxtaposed beads, and then looked at their perspective meanings. Every so often I saw a large, red bead. This reminded me of last week's lesson, that in the middle of all of these important relationships I have, there is me. And it's ok-- even good--to take some time for me, in order to be a better mom, a better wife, a better friend. There is also a great big green bead on my bracelet, swirled with gold, reminding me of how precious my family is. The enormity of this bead also reminded me of how much time it takes to be a mommy, too! And every so often there are these simple, white beads, reminding me of how important it is to be refreshed by the Lord. And the fact that all of these beads are connected reminded me that we are all connected to each other, mom to friend, friend to family, family to community, community to God.
Hopefully you were able to enjoy the craft and were able to learn from a pile of beads and a piece of wire.
May blessings fall upon you like raindrops,
leah
Miss the Go Fish Guys this year?
Go Fish Christmas Concert!
Saturday, November 14, 2009
2p.m.
Hawthorne Gospel Church
2000 Route 208 Hawthorne, NJ 07506
973-427-6960
www.hawthornegospel.com
www.gofishguys.com
www.itickets.com
$10 each for groups of 10 or more
$12 in advance/$15 at the door
General Admission/No Refunds!
We are also having an event after the concert called "Christmas with a capital C". The guys will be signing autographs, there will be baked goodies to eat, crafts for the kids, face painting, hot cocoa, snow cones, sleigh rides, carolers. It will definitely get us all ready to enjoy this Christmas season.
Saturday, November 14, 2009
2p.m.
Hawthorne Gospel Church
2000 Route 208 Hawthorne, NJ 07506
973-427-6960
www.hawthornegospel.com
www.gofishguys.com
www.itickets.com
$10 each for groups of 10 or more
$12 in advance/$15 at the door
General Admission/No Refunds!
We are also having an event after the concert called "Christmas with a capital C". The guys will be signing autographs, there will be baked goodies to eat, crafts for the kids, face painting, hot cocoa, snow cones, sleigh rides, carolers. It will definitely get us all ready to enjoy this Christmas season.
Monday, October 26, 2009
MOPS Speaker
Hi Everyone!
I received this speaker recommendation from Karyn, Coordinator of Messiah MOPS in Downingtown PA.
Together Moms Can Help the Planet Speech – ‘I’m just one Mom? Can I really make a difference?’
Karen Fletcher has a BS in Environmental Science and tries to help the environment each day, which can be tough some days with 2 toddlers in tow. She gives small, practical, easy-to-apply ideas to help your MOPS moms make more environmentally friendly choices for their family! Her presentation includes examples of appropriate recyclable materials, examples of all natural products and a hand-out summarizing all the ideas presented. If given enough notice, she will research the specific recycling programs in your area. She presented her speech for the MOPS moms at Messiah Lutheran Church (Downingtown, PA) in September 2009. Please feel free to contact her at knfletchlives@verizon.net with any questions.
Reminder: If you have a great speaker that you would like to recommend to the MOPS groups in our Zone, please send the speaker's bio and information to me, pamopscm@aol.com to post to our blog.
I received this speaker recommendation from Karyn, Coordinator of Messiah MOPS in Downingtown PA.
Together Moms Can Help the Planet Speech – ‘I’m just one Mom? Can I really make a difference?’
Karen Fletcher has a BS in Environmental Science and tries to help the environment each day, which can be tough some days with 2 toddlers in tow. She gives small, practical, easy-to-apply ideas to help your MOPS moms make more environmentally friendly choices for their family! Her presentation includes examples of appropriate recyclable materials, examples of all natural products and a hand-out summarizing all the ideas presented. If given enough notice, she will research the specific recycling programs in your area. She presented her speech for the MOPS moms at Messiah Lutheran Church (Downingtown, PA) in September 2009. Please feel free to contact her at knfletchlives@verizon.net with any questions.
Reminder: If you have a great speaker that you would like to recommend to the MOPS groups in our Zone, please send the speaker's bio and information to me, pamopscm@aol.com to post to our blog.
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