Area Coordinator's (AC's) Corner

Area Coordinator's (AC's) Corner
Nichole Bethel, Zone 22 AC

CONVENTION UPDATE

Ta da! A Convention announcement!
We just signed the papers and we thank you for your prayers as we worked on moving, well, a whole lotta details in just a few days.

Drum roll #1: The Gaylord Palms in Kissimmee, FL (Orlando area) was able to welcome us (in the midst of many conventions needing to move).

Drum roll #2: We're able to keep the registration fees the same, so some of you might decide to come early or stay late, and enjoy the Orlando amenities with your friends (or family).

And thanks for all the great ideas of cities! You helped our future dreaming. 'Twould be fun!
And again, it will be great because of Who we'll be with: "Where(ver) two or three (thousand) are gathered in my name, there am I with them." (Mt. 18:20, our year's theme verse with my additions).

Naomi Cramer Overton

Convention Details:
The MOPS International Convention will be at the Gaylord Palms, Kissimmee, FL (Orlando area). Dates will be the same, August 5-7, 2010. Speakers and artists will be the same great lineup — Julie Barnhill, Margaret Feinberg, Donald Miller, Naomi Cramer Overton, Shelly Radic, Go Fish, Mandisa, The Katinas and Richie McDonald.

Convention registration will re-open on Monday, May 17.
The early bird registration deadline will be extended to June 7.
We are working with the Gaylord Opryland for an official letter we can provide to anyone who has already purchased airline tickets to use with airlines to avoid rebooking fees. This letter should assist you in rebooking airline tickets — it will be posted online at www.MOPS.org/convention.
We continue to pray for families and businesses affected by the flooding and we have sent MOPS materials to local MOPS leaders who are distributing supplies in the Nashville area.



MOPS International Convention 2010

August 5-7, 2010
Gaylord Palms, Orlando FL



Check back often for more information!



Your MOPS International Convention Checklist:

Register for Convention (re-opens May 17)
Reserve a room at the hotel (register first!)
Schedule shuttle transportation



MOPS Convention ~ August 5-7, 2010

MOPS Convention ~ August 5-7, 2010
Registration for Convention is open on Monday, May 17th! Click on the picture.

Thursday, December 31, 2009

The 10th year...

All through December, I have been reflecting on the year 2009. It was a highlight year for me because my oldest children, three girls, turned 10 yrs old which means I've been on "Planet Moms" for a whole decade. Our family have been affectionately calling it "the 10th year", thanks to a friend who made the girls their own personal scrap book for their birthday with that as the title.

The 10th year did not come quickly. I distinctly remember thinking in the baby years that our diaper days would never end. I remember thinking in the toddler years that my children would never finish a meal where most of it did not end up on the floor. As we entered the school age years, just over five years ago, I thought I was on the road to success...they were all successfully potty trained, they helped me prepare meals, and were independent with completing their assigned chores around the house which made my job of mothering easier. However, homework and discussions around real life issues seemed to be the new season of it will never end.

I am more than ever aware that my husband and I are influencing these little lives to shape them into people who love the Lord for themselves and will commit their lives to advance God's kingdom. This reality makes me want to will time to slow down. I take every opportunity I get to stop and be "together" with my kids. Together, we read long books, take adventure hikes with no idea where we'll end up, and bake up some of the most amazing treats you've ever tasted. I know this next decade will speed by and it won't be long before they are graduating high school, walking down aisles committing to marriage, and achieving their life dreams. YIKES!!!

My saving grace comes from one of my favorite bible verses, Matt 6:33-34 says, "But seek first his kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well. Therefore do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about itself. Each day has enough trouble of its own." I am humbly reminded in these verses that God will guide my steps during every stage of mothering. Knowing this brings forth a peace and comfort that can only come from our heavenly father. I am very grateful for this past decade and look forward to what the year 2010 will bring as my husband and I head into our next decade of parenting. "Together" I know we can make it! Write and share what you are looking forward to in the year 2010.

I pray you all have a blessed New Year,
Nichole, your AC

Friday, December 04, 2009

Sara Groves ~ O Holy Night Tour

Ok, so I am a big fan of Sara Groves and I missed having her perform at the MOPS Convention this year. (I guess they have to change it up...) Anyway, if there is someone out there that is a bigger fan it would have to be my husband, Dan. So, lucky me, I have seen Sara perform at two MOPS Conventions and at the last one I saw her, we were able to go to a dinner where Sara shared her testimony. I feel bad that Dan hasn't been able to experience it.

Sara was in Scotch Plains NJ last night (December 3rd)at Evangel Church and Dan and I were there. For those of you who go to concerts, you know how expensive it can get. The tickets for this concert were free. The concert was in a very comfortable (I don't think there were any bad seats) church sanctuary. It was a very intimate concert. Sara keeps her whole family involved too. Her hubby, Troy or "Mr. Sara Groves" as he called himself, introduced her and did all the "extra" sounds and noises for the songs. (If you've heard "Toy Packaging" you know there is some hammering and an electric screwdriver.) Her younger son, Toby, spoke during one of the songs, "It's True" (it is on her Christmas "O Holy Night" cd) and older son, Kirby, came on stage and shared his experience of visiting Rwanda with his parents over the summer and meeting his sponsored child. Their youngest daughter sat in the audience and was well-behaved. During intermission, the three kids were playing hide-and-seek in the pews and hid in our pew. I momentarily wished that we had brought Danielle because she would have joined right in on the fun. There were a lot of families and it was very kid friendly.

The concert started at 8 pm and the church's worship team performed some songs to warm up the audience. Sara was soon out with her band in their matching argyl sweater vests. I jokingly told Dan that I would be sure to get him one for Christmas this year. She mostly sang songs from her Christmas cd, but did sing some songs off of her newest "Fireflies and Songs" cd too.

So many moments within the concert that I want to comment on, but it is hard to choose one. I just felt how authentic Sara is with her life and her beliefs. She and her family are supporting Food for the Hungry and had information packets on children from the Rwandan village for people to sponsor. Sara reminded us that Christmas is about Jesus and I know I was grateful for the opportunity to sit and reflect on that. Too often in the past, Christmas has become all about shopping for me. I have been making a conscious effort to keep the focus of Christmas on Jesus and to be an example for my children.

I thank God that Dan and I had the opportunity to take a week day night and drive about an hour to the concert. It was a late night for us, we got home after 11, but it refreshed my soul and strengthened my resolve to truly celebrate Christmas this year.

One of the most interesting aspects of the concert for me didn't involve Sara directly. We sat on the side of the church behind the hearing impaired section. There were two women who each took turns signing the whole concert. At times I found myself fascinated by the signing. It was beautiful. I was really touched by it and especially appreciated the sign for angels singing. I feel as though I experienced an added dimension to a musical concert that I had never had. Seriously, words seem inadequate to describe the beauty. I was in awe and captivated.


Check out "I Saw What I Saw"

Also, for a lighter song, check out "Setting Up the Pins"

Hoping that you too can celebrate the true meaning of Christmas this year with your friends & family. If you attended the concert, please add your comments, I barely scratched the surface with my comments.

Christy

Monday, November 23, 2009

REMINDER: Conference Call TONIGHT

Hello MOPS Leaders!



Before you take a much deserved break for Thanksgiving with your family and friends, why not spend a bit of time with your MOPS co-leaders and friends?



I am talking about our DUAL ZONE CONFERENCE CALL for all leaders of Zones 14 and 22We look forward to hearing your voices on the call Monday evening. Here is the topic and call-in information you’ll need to join us on the call.

CROSS ZONE CONFERENCE CALL

FOR ALL LEADERS IN ZONE 14 & ZONE 22

When: Monday, November 23, 2009

Time: 8:30 until 9:15 PM

Topic: “Answer the Phone: It’s God Calling!”

Call Leaders:

Gayle Stahlman, AC Zone 14

Carrie Burtt, CC Zone 14

Call-in Number 712-432-0750

Access Code 313034#

Limited to the first 100 callers

We hope you will take time to join us!

Saturday, November 21, 2009

Operation Christmas Child Shoebox Inspiration

Hi All,

Nichole Bethel, our Zone 22 Area Coordinator, and her daughter, Olivia were on "Good Day Philadelphia" this past week because Olivia helped to collect 535 boxes. Olivia collects shoeboxes for Operation Christmas Child for her BIRTHDAY! What a great example for all of us.



Thanks,
Christy

Monday, November 16, 2009

She Did What She Could (SDWSC)

She Did What She Could: Five words of Jesus that will change your life is the title of Elisa Morgan’s latest book. I was fortunate enough to purchase a copy at the MOPS Convention and read it on my plane rides home. The title comes from Mark 14:3-9 and I think it is important enough to include it here:

Jesus was in Bethany at the home of Simon, a man who had previously had leprosy. While he was eating, a woman came in with a beautiful alabaster jar of expensive perfume made from the essence of nard. She broke open the jar and poured the perfume over his head.

Some of those at the table were indignant. “why waste such expensive perfume?” they asked. “It could have been sold for a year’s wages and the money given to the poor!” So they scolded her harshly.

But Jesus replied, “Leave her alone. Why criticize her for doing such a good thing to me? You will always have the poor among you, and you can help them wheneve you want to. But you will not always have me. She did what she could and has anointed my body for burial ahead of time. I tell you the truth, wherever the Good News is preached throughout the world, this woman’s deed will be remembered and discussed.

Jesus said “She Did What She Could”. Elisa Morgan introduced that phrase to all the MOPS Convention Attendees last year with her SDWSC pin. I really liked the idea of delving so deeply into that one phrase. The book is divided into 3 parts. Part one takes each word of She Did What She Could and examines it. Part 2 asks and examines each word of the question “What If I Did What I Could?”. Part 3 then finishes by asking and examining the We in the question “What If We Did What We Could?”


I have definitely read that passage from Mark in the Bible before, but never have I had someone focus my attention on that phrase from Jesus…”She did what she could.” There is some comfort there for me now after reading the book and a call to action. I know I can’t do EVERYTHING. Some days I get that SUPERMOM syndrome and really try to do it all and I end up not getting anything done; however, if I find what I am suppose to do and focus on that, then perhaps I too can hear Jesus say about me that “she did what she could”?

From the back of the book”

Most of us care. We really do. We care about poverty and injustice, about orphans and the sick. And yet, weighed down by everyday tasks of bringing home a paycheck, putting food on the table, and shuttling kids around, we question our ability to make a difference. Bombarded by one celebrity help-the-world-athon after another, we shrug our shoulders in futility and do absolutely nothing.

But what if we did….

Something?

Just one thing.

The thing that matters more than anything else in that solitary moment.

What if we did just that?

What if?

If nothing else, She Did What She Could encourages us to be aware of our actions and how they reflect Jesus to others.

Have you read it or want to read it? Share your comments and questions here.

Thanks,
Christy

Saturday, October 31, 2009

Events Going on in Our Zone

The holidays are quickly approaching! Below are some exciting events that are guaranteed to make you sing, " It's beginning to feel a lot like Christmas..."

The Go Fish Guys are coming to our Zone in 2 weeks!

Go Fish Christmas Concert

Venue: Hawthorne Gospel Church, Hawthorne, NJ
Date: Saturday, November 14, 2009
Time: 2pm
For more information, call the church at 973-427-6960 or go to the following websites: www.hawthornegospel.com , www.gofishguys.com , www.itickets.com

Sara Gorves is coming to our Zone this December at two locations!

Sara will present her "O Holy Night" Christmas Concert:

Venue: Evangel Church, Scotch Plains, NJ
Date: Thursday, December 3, 2009
Time: 8pm (doors open at 7:30pm)

For more information, go to www.evangel.com

Venue: Hershey Free Church, Hershey, PA
Date: Tuesday, December 8, 2009
Time: 7:30pm (doors open at 6:30pm)

For more information, go to www.hersheyfree.com

If you know of other exciting events around our Zone, please share them here.

Tuesday, October 27, 2009

reflections on beads, bracelets, and imperfection

When my MOPS group last met, we had a craft that involved making a bracelet using beads of a variety of colors and sizes and wire. Our Creative Activities Lead, Jill, told us the different colors of beads represented different things: pink/purple represents friends, green represents family, blue represents community, red represents self, and white represents God. One of the moms, Leah Weikel, sent this email to our Discussion Group later that day about the craft and I thought it inspirational. I got her ok to share it on the blog.

I have to admit that the perfectionist in me wanted to keep me from attempting the craft today--saying, "If you start to strand the beads now, you won't get it perfect. You need to categorize the beads first, according to size and shape and then find the pattern. It's really quite simple." However, the practical side of me said, "If you don't start now, it will never get done." So I began stranding beads together, trying to make an eclectic-but-elegant pattern. I didn't seem to find my groove, as I watched other moms quickly and talentedly express themselves through beadwork. Then I stopped thinking about it, and I just began to strand the beads, one by one, not paying too much attention to color and size, just kind of winging it. Then it happened. I found my pattern-- or my psuedo-pattern. It was more of a general theme than an actual pattern, and I managed to tell my inner perfectionist to, in nice terms, "be quiet." I wasn't able to finish my creation in that comfy, blue table-clothed room, so I had to take it home with me, hoping that all of my work thus far wouldn't come apart, unravel and flood my purse with tiny, shiny raindrops of glass.

I was lucky. I managed to make it to my parents' house, with both kids asleep in their car seats. As soon as I took my tiny tots to their beds at Nana's house, I was back at it-- back in the flow of the rhythm of the beads. It didn't take me long to finish. And, I was actually happy with my creation. Then I began to reflect on the meaning and purpose behind the craft. I looked at the juxtaposed beads, and then looked at their perspective meanings. Every so often I saw a large, red bead. This reminded me of last week's lesson, that in the middle of all of these important relationships I have, there is me. And it's ok-- even good--to take some time for me, in order to be a better mom, a better wife, a better friend. There is also a great big green bead on my bracelet, swirled with gold, reminding me of how precious my family is. The enormity of this bead also reminded me of how much time it takes to be a mommy, too! And every so often there are these simple, white beads, reminding me of how important it is to be refreshed by the Lord. And the fact that all of these beads are connected reminded me that we are all connected to each other, mom to friend, friend to family, family to community, community to God.

Hopefully you were able to enjoy the craft and were able to learn from a pile of beads and a piece of wire.

May blessings fall upon you like raindrops,
leah

Miss the Go Fish Guys this year?


Go Fish Christmas Concert!
Saturday, November 14, 2009
2p.m.
Hawthorne Gospel Church
2000 Route 208 Hawthorne, NJ 07506
973-427-6960
www.hawthornegospel.com
www.gofishguys.com
www.itickets.com
$10 each for groups of 10 or more
$12 in advance/$15 at the door
General Admission/No Refunds!

We are also having an event after the concert called "Christmas with a capital C". The guys will be signing autographs, there will be baked goodies to eat, crafts for the kids, face painting, hot cocoa, snow cones, sleigh rides, carolers. It will definitely get us all ready to enjoy this Christmas season.

Monday, October 26, 2009

MOPS Speaker

Hi Everyone!
I received this speaker recommendation from Karyn, Coordinator of Messiah MOPS in Downingtown PA.

Together Moms Can Help the Planet Speech – ‘I’m just one Mom? Can I really make a difference?’

Karen Fletcher has a BS in Environmental Science and tries to help the environment each day, which can be tough some days with 2 toddlers in tow. She gives small, practical, easy-to-apply ideas to help your MOPS moms make more environmentally friendly choices for their family! Her presentation includes examples of appropriate recyclable materials, examples of all natural products and a hand-out summarizing all the ideas presented. If given enough notice, she will research the specific recycling programs in your area. She presented her speech for the MOPS moms at Messiah Lutheran Church (Downingtown, PA) in September 2009. Please feel free to contact her at knfletchlives@verizon.net with any questions.

Reminder: If you have a great speaker that you would like to recommend to the MOPS groups in our Zone, please send the speaker's bio and information to me, pamopscm@aol.com to post to our blog.

Wednesday, October 21, 2009

The Multi-Use Product You NEED

WOW! I got this as the title of an email the other day. It gave me pause because I have been trying to focus myself on the differences between the things that I truly need and the things that I want. So, before I opened the email (here's a hint for you it was from totalBeauty.com) I reflected on a Bible passage that has been prevalent to me this past year. These verses may seem familiar to you if you listened to my talk in May on Choosing Leaders for Next Year. Matthew 6:19-34. This time I am using my Message Bible.

Don't hoard treasures down here where it gets eaten by moths and corroded by rust or - worse! - stolen by burglars. Stockpile treasure in heaven, where it's safe from moth and rust and burglars. It's obvious, isn't it? The place where your treasure is, is the place you will most want to be, and end up being.
Your eyes are windows into your body. If you open your eyes wide in wonder and belief, your body fills with light. If you live squinty-eyed in greed and distrust, your body is a dank cellar. If you pull the blinds on your windows, what a dark life you will have!
You can't worship two gods at once. Loving one god, you'll end up hating the other. Adoration of one feeds contempt for the other. You can't worship God and Money both.
If you decide for God, living a life of God-worship, it follows that you don't fuss about what's on the table at mealtimes or whether the clothes in your closet are in fashion. There is far more to your life than the food you put in your stomach, more to your outer appearance than the clothes you hang on your body. Look at the birds, free and unfettered, not tied down to a job description, careless in the care of God. And you count far more to him than birds.
Has anyone by fussing in front of the mirror ever gotten taller by so much as an inch? All this time and money wasted on fashion - do you think it makes that much difference? Instead of looking at the fashions, walk out into the fields and look at the wildflowers. They never primp or shop, but have you ever seen color and design quite like it? The ten best-dressed men and women in the country look shabby alongside them.
If God gives such attention to the appearance of wildflowers - most of which are never even seen - don't you think he'll attend to you, take pride in you, do his best for you? What I'm trying to do here is to get you to relax, to not be so preoccupied with getting, so you can respond to God's giving. People who don't know God and the way he works fuss over these things, but you know both God and how he works. Steep your life in God-reality, God-initiative, God-provisions. Don't worry about missing out. You'll find all your everyday human concerns will be met.
Give your entire attention to what God is doing right now, and don't get worked up about what may or may not happen tomorrow. God will help you deal with whatever hard things come up when the time comes.


Ok, so that is a lot to digest.

The verse that speaks to me the most says "What I'm trying to do here is to get you to relax, not be so preoccupied with getting, so you can respond to God's giving."

Hmmm...so is there really a multi-product that I NEED. NO...maybe there is one that I WANT. There certainly are plenty that I use. I admit these verses tug on my heart more and more as I grow older. There are so many anti-aging products and foundations, blushes, eye shadows, lip glosses (see, I am thinking I NEED my lip gloss), eye pencils, hair color, and, well, I could go on and on.

So, I get this email and I am curious. What do I NEED now??? Oh, a Tinted Moisturizer. Of course, how have I lived so long without a tinted moisturizer???? Sigh, maybe, just maybe, I should TRY to live without that tinted moisturizer and turn my focus to God. What a step of faith!

Oh, Father God, to be like the birds and to be "careless in the care of God". As a mere human that is my goal...it is my struggle.

Ultimately, there is only one thing that I NEED and that is God. I NEED to "steep my life in God-reality, God-initiative, God-provisions" and then I am free.

Whew, luckily I was able to delete that email, but will I delete the next temptation?

What do you struggle with as far as things you NEED versus things you WANT? Do you turn to God for discernment? Please share your thoughts with us.

Thanks,
Christy

Thursday, October 15, 2009

Hmmm...which are you? Carrots, Eggs, or Coffee Beans?

Ok, everyone is so quiet on our blog. I do hope that someone is stopping by and reading my ramblings or I may start to hear an echo in here.

I was asked by the Coordinator of my MOPS group to do the Devotion for our meeting and I found that story on the Internet (actually if you do a search you will find it everywhere.) and then I found a pastor's sermon with the story integrated in it with scripture references and used that as my main source. Anyway, when I went to the site to provide a link I realized that they update the sermons each week and it is no longer there. Here is the church's website http://www.centralunitedmethodist.org/templates/System/default.asp?id=25216 and the sermon was written for Sunday, September 20, 2009 by Dr. Mark Key from Central United Methodist Church in Asheboro NC.
(Please keep in mind I changed some of it to fit in with my MOPS meeting.)

A young new mom went to her mom and told her that her life now was so difficult with the constant demands of a newborn and the lack of sleep and she went on and on about how hard things in her life were for her. She did not know how she was going to make it and wanted to just give up. She was tired and she was tired of struggling and fighting. It seemed as one problem was solved, a new one arose.

Her mom took her to the kitchen. She filled three pots with water and place each one on a burner on high. Soon the pots started to boil. In the first pot she placed carrots, in the second pot she place eggs and in the last pot she place ground coffee beans. She let them sit and boil without saying anything.

In a few minutes she turned off the burners. She fished the carrots out and placed them in a bowl. She pulled the eggs out and placed them in a bowl. Then she ladled the coffee beans out and poured it in a cup. And then she asked her daughter, "What do you see?"

"Carrots, eggs and coffee." She replied.

Her mom brought her closer and asked her to feel the carrots. She noted that they were soft. Her mom told her to take the egg and break it. She observed a hard-boiled egg. Finally, she instructed her to sip the coffee. The daughter smiled as she tasted its rich aroma. "What does all this mean?" asked the daughter.

Her mom explained that each of these objects had faced the same adversity: boiling water. Each reacted differently. The carrot went in strong, hard and unrelenting. However, after being subjected to the boiling water, it softened and became weak. The egg had been fragile. It thin outer shell had protected its liquid interior; but after sitting through the boiling water, its inside became hardened. The ground coffee beans were unique; however, after they were in the boiling water, they had changed the water.

"Which are you?" she asked her daughter. "When adversity knocks on your door, how do you respond?" As a carrot, an egg, or a coffee bean?

Sometimes we are like the carrot, aren't we? We become weak or soft. And sometimes we have been like the egg and become hardened in response to situations around us. We may still have a shell around us that looks normal, but inside we are bitter or stiff or have hardened hearts.

God invites us to a new way of living. God invites us to respond to all the situations around us with kindness and love. And when we do, he uses us to actually change the world around us. Just like the bean changed the hot water, God, in Christ living in us changes others through us.

So, I have been very conscience of my reactions to situations in my life. I do tend to be more like the carrot or the egg, but I really want to be a consistent coffee bean. Then I find this story in Neil Cole's book, Organic Leadership: Leading Naturally Right Where You Are on pages 142-143:
"Nancy Reagan once said women are like tea bags, you find out what they are made of when they are placed in hot water. This is true for all of us. The hot water of life will draw out whatever is within us, good or bad.
If Jesus has placed his love in you, that love will come out in the decisions you make. It will also be evident in the regrets you have for poorly made decisions. His love redeems all of our good choices as well as our bad."

Hmmmmm......

So much to reflect. Take a moment. Next "hot water" situation you find yourself in, pause, and decide if you are going to be the carrot, the egg, or the coffee bean.

God Bless,
Christy

Thursday, October 08, 2009

REMINDER Conference Call Tonight at 8:30

Our Dual Conference Call is scheduled for TONIGHT October 8, 2009 from 8:30 - 9:15 pm.
Topic: Convention Highlights
Led by: Denise Kother, CC
Conference Call in #: 218-339-2500
Access Code: 122231#

Please plan to call in and have any questions ready for discussion!

Thanks,
Christy

Monday, October 05, 2009

Dual Zone Training Conference Call Date Set

Please mark your calendars and send a reminder email to ALL your Steering Team Members.

Our next call is scheduled for Thursday, October 8, 2009 from 8:30 - 9:15 pm.
Topic: Convention Highlights
Led by: Denise Kother, CC
Conference Call in #: 218-339-2500
Access Code: 122231#


Have any questions or topics you want answered or addressed, please let us know.

Thanks,
Christy

Sunday, October 04, 2009

MOPS Convention 411 God

Finding that some days you don't have time to sit down and read your Bible? Check out one of the sponsors from this year's MOPS Convention ~ 411 God. They will send a one-minute Bible verse to your phone or email at the time of day you specify. Try it!

Here's a video that gives you details:
Quick Time

Here's the website for 411 God:

http://www.411god.net/



God Bless,
Christy

Tuesday, September 29, 2009

MOPS Convention

Hello!

Well, I made it back home safe from Convention on Sunday evening. Got in around 5 pm and spent some quality time with my family and then, before I knew what was happening, my husband and oldest son, Chris, packed up the car and left at 7 pm to go spend the night in a hotel (4-5 hour drive away) for a college visit the next morning.
STOP!
Wait, I just got home...can't life just stop or at least slow down to let me catch up...NO WAY, not on Planet Mom. I am sure you all know what that is like. I know from talking to other leaders at Convention that there were a multitude of things that we were all going home to that day. Unfortunately, on Monday morning (as Kendall so rightly phrased it in our General Session) Matt Redman was not knocking on my door that morning to sing worship songs with me. aw, shucks (snap my fingers)

Our Zone had about 77 moms attend this year's Convention and it was a pleasure to connect with some of you during our First Link Cafe time on Friday. If I didn't get a chance to say "hi!" I apologize. So much to do in so little time...how often do we feel like that too? Convention was a whirlwind of inspiring music, touching talks, incredible speakers, lots of new friends and connections, and, of course, good times with friends.

I will have some stories about Convention that I want to share with you over the next week and I am HOPING and PRAYING that you will share your stories with us here too. If you have a Convention story or lesson learned that you want to share, email it to me and I will post it or you can put it in the Comments. (where are the comments...is anyone else out there...hello, hello???!!) Also, if you did not attend Convention, but want to share your MOPS story with us, please do so.

Before I sign off, I wanted to let everyone know that the MOPS Leadership for Life Summit is scheduled for April 17, 2010 (save the date now & let your Steering Team know) and is titled "PASSION: Simple Courage in the Everyday". We are hoping to have several locations host this event within our Zone. If your church has CCN, please prayerfully consider being a host. We will be giving you more information in the coming weeks.

Next year's MOPS International Convention is scheduled for August 5-7 and it is back in Nashville! How exciting that MOPS leaders now have an opportunity to attend Convention and take back what you have learned and apply it to your MOPS meetings before the year has started!

Mark your calendars!

Hope to hear from you,
Christy

Thursday, September 10, 2009

ATTENTION: Convention Attendees

WHO: Any or all MOPS leaders

WHY: To share craft projects, publicity samples, etc., any ideas that make MOPS easier – better – more fun

WHEN: Thursday/Friday/Saturday of Convention. Drop off items anytime on Thursday; pick up anytime after 3:00 Saturday.

WHERE: In the First Link Café

The Show ‘n Tell Tables will be along the rear wall of the First Link Café.
Leaders, you can bring multiple copies of your ideas for people to take or just one sample for display. It’s a good idea to have e-mail addresses on the samples so others can contact you easily.


Need more information? Contact Elizabeth Bollinger, violawind@bluemarble.net or Michelle Flaherty, michelleflaherty@comcast.net

Wednesday, September 09, 2009

WE NEED PICTURES!!

Hello!

This year's MOPS theme verse is from Matthew 18:20 "Where two or three come together in my name, there I am with them." For the MOPS Convention our Zone, Zone 22, will have a table available for us in the First Link Cafe, which will be located in the Resource Area of the Convention Center. The Field Leaders in Zone 22, including me, are putting together a personalized Zone centerpiece and we could really use your help. If you have pictures of your MOPS group that can be emailed, please choose 1-5 and email them to me at pamopscm@aol.com no later than Wednesday, September 16th. Then you will have to be sure to stop at our First Link Cafe Zone 22 table on Friday, September 25 from 3:45 - 4:30 pm and see what we have created just for you. If you are not going to Convention this year, please send pictures and we will be sure to take pictures of our Zone 22 centerpiece and share them with the Zone right here on our blog!

Thank you,
Christy

Monday, September 07, 2009

MOPS CONVENTION

Well, the MOPS Convention is only days away....are you going? If yes, are you excited? The Field Leaders in Zone 22 want to know if you are going to the MOPS Convention. Please be sure to let your Council Coordinator (CC) or our Area Coordinator (AC), Nichole Bethel, know that you will be there.
MOPS International is doing something a little different this year. They will have an area called First Link Cafe in the Resource Hall at Convention. There will be tables and chairs and our Zone will have an area just for us!
We are all scheduled to meet at the First Link Cafe on Friday from 3:45 - 4:30 pm. PLEASE put that on your schedule and be sure to stop by and see us! This time is for us to connect as a Zone and (I am pretty sure) we will have some goodies for anyone who comes!

I hope and pray that your first MOPS meeting goes well for you, your Steering Team, and your moms! Let us know if you have any questions or concerns.

Hope to see YOU in Nashville,

Christy

Tuesday, August 18, 2009

Community

Community... What does that mean to you? How are you using the idea of community within your Steering Team and within your MOPS group this year. Please share...

I found this in an article in the August/September issue of Catalyst Leadership digital magazine.(from ChristianityToday.com) The article was titled Growth in the Gutter: Cultivating Spiritual Formation in a Community of Addicts by John Burke under the header Rigorous Honesty:
"The only thing we must do is stay connected. But we don't do this naturally, so creating the right environment, where we can best stay connected to God's spirit is critical. It starts with grace-filled, authentic relationships that make it okay to admit struggles, failure, and sin. James tells us God uses this kind of confessing, praying culture to heal us (James 5:16).

To read the article in its entirety, go to Catalyst Leadership http://www.catalystleadershipdigital.com/
The article is on page 14.

Monday, July 27, 2009

From Juicebox to Jesus ~ Taking Discussions to a Spiritual Level

Hi!
How is your summer going? I know for one thing it is going...We are at the end of July already. If you missed our Dual Training Conference Call on July 14th, you can call in and listen to the recording. Here is the information. If you listened or do listen, please share any thoughts or comments here with us...if there is anyone out there...

From Juicebox to Jesus - Taking Discussions to a Spiritual Level
Leader: Tina Skiles, Council Coordinator Zone 14
Playback number is (712) 432-1080
Access code is 313034#

Monday, July 13, 2009

Encouragement

My oldest son, Chris, is about to turn 17 and has his driver's permit and will be a senior in high school. He is a quiet young man and it takes some time and concentrated work to have a meaningful conversation with him. Luckily, we have had a couple while in the car together. He has been playing the trumpet since 4th grade and is in the high school marching band, concert band, and orchestra. Together we went to his Music Banquet at the end of the school year. While there two other trumpet players told Chris that he should apply for the Section Leader position. I asked him about it and wondered if he was going to apply. He said that he thought about it, but probably wouldn't do it. I wanted to know why he wouldn't especially since two trumpet players thought he would do a good job. I told him he shouldn't focus on "what if I don't get it" and focus more on "how can I be a good Section Leader". I thought the main reason he didn't apply was that he was afraid that he would "fail" and not get it. There were 5 people applying for the 2 positions, so 3 people were going to be disappointed. He did apply and was interviewed. Would he have if I hadn't encouraged him? I am not sure.

Well, he did not get the position. Ugh! It is so much easier when my child succeeds because I can be genuinely happy and give all kinds of encouraging words. It is more work to deal with the failures, but when I look at those failures I try to help him focus on what he has learned and how he has grown from the experience. I hope and pray that maybe next time he won't need my encouragement to try for something he wants and go for it. I am not sure.

Guess what? Right after he didn't get the section leader position, I found out that a position that I had applied for was given to someone else. I knew EXACTLY how Chris was feeling. There is a wave of emotions that go through you when you feel you have "failed". It is much easier to say all the "hope you feel better" cliches to my son then to swallow them myself. "You are qualified for the postion, there must have been another reason you didn't get it", "God has a plan for you and you have to have faith in him and it", and "Just because you didn't get this doesn't mean you should give up". Suddenly, all my "words of wisdom" sounded so hollow to me. What a wake up call.

I sat down with him and I apologized to him. I told him I was so sorry that he didn't get the position and that I knew how he felt. I told him what happened to me. I asked if he was angry, and he admitted he was a little angry. I asked if he was wondering if there was something wrong with him, and he admitted he did lose some of his self-confidence. I asked him if he would continue to go after what he wanted, and he admitted he wasn't sure. I told him we both needed to pray. After we prayed together, I told him that I hoped that he would still be willing to go after something that he wanted regardless of whether he would succeed or fail. I am not so sure. I do know this though, I will always be there to encourage him, pray for him and with him, and to love him whether he succeeds or fails.

He just got home from a Mission Trip with my husband and our church to the Dominican Republic. Our Associate Pastor asked him to give his testimony on their last day there at the church service. He wrote 3 pages in his notebook talking about how much his experiences in the Dominican Republic have helped him grow in his relationship with God. I had tears in my eyes when he let me read it. The verse that he focused on is from Jeremiah 29:11 (New Living Translation) For I know the plans I have for you,” says the Lord. “They are plans for good and not for disaster, to give you a future and a hope.

God is so amazing!

Hope you are having a good summer!
Christy

Tuesday, June 30, 2009

Dual Zone Training Conference Call Date Set

Our next Dual Zone Training Conference Call date has been set. Please mark your calendars and plan to attend!

Call Date: Monday, July 20, 2009
Call Time: 8:30 - 9:15 PM
Call-In Number: 712-432-0750
Participant Access: 313034#

TOPIC: "From Juicebox to Jesus" - Taking Discussions to a Spiritual Level
Leader: Tina Skiles, Council Coordinator Zone 14

All Coordinators, DGLs, and MOPS Mentors are strongly encouraged to participate. All other steering positions are welcome too!

Wednesday, June 03, 2009

Lesson in Trust

My 11-year-old son, Justin, has been having sporadic stomach issues over the last several weeks and it has caused some concern for us. I had been meaning to make a doctor's appointment, but the month of May is such a busy month. Finally, on Monday, June 1st, he wasn't feeling well or eating and I kept him out of school and made an appointment. Not surprising the doctor ordered some blood work to be done so they could check a couple of things.
Apparently, Justin doesn't remember ever having a blood test. I felt lucky that the lab was in the same building as the doctor's office and the tech was free when we walked over to her. Justin started to ask me a lot of questions about blood tests. Are they like shots? How much does it hurt? Did I remember the last time he got a blood test? (Time to be authentic with all of you...I am a scaredy cat when it comes to blood tests and needles. Yes, I gave birth naturally to three children, but somehow that does not stop my hands from sweating at the thought of a needle and blood test. It is a true phobia of mine that I have yet to conquer.) So, here I am putting on a brave face in the office with Justin and telling him it will be ok and that it really doesn't hurt. All honest things to say because I know that it really doesn't hurt, what I struggle with is the whole idea. On top of that, we have Danielle, my lively 2 1/2 year old, with us too. She was excited about the visit. She sat down in the chair right next to Justin and was ready to watch it all. Rosie, the BEST lab tech ever, found a vein and had the needle prepped. She told Justin to be sure he kept his arm still, when it happened.
He pulled his arm away and said no he was not going to get a blood test today. No way, no how. Now, I know how the fear can eat at you and start to control you, and I told him in my best mom-is-the-boss voice that he was getting a blood test done and to put his arm back out right now. No, was his reply. Then came the shaky voice, the uncertain look on his face, and the watery eyes. Moments like this in my life remind me that mothering can be one of the hardest jobs ever. In moments like this, I truly believe that if I had to apply for the position and prove that I am prepared for any and all situations, that I would be found very wanting. He was adament in his refusal. I tried compassion. I told him that it would be a pinch, but that it would be over quickly and he would feel so much better. I started to pray. Danielle then joined in on the crying. Yes, her little adventure to the doctor's office was now souring and she was ready to leave. She ran for the door. Rosie went and got a nurse from the doctor's office. In between controlling Danielle and trying to give Justin a lesson in trusting mom and God, I was at the end of my rope. Keeping in mind that I do have this phobia, I know the fear, and I was quite clear that I would not let Justin leave the building without getting the test done. I told him that we could not let the fear win. In desperation, I called my mom. Imagine how relieved I was when she answered the phone and then told me she was with her prayer group and they would all pray for Justin. She also spoke to him and tried to convince him to cooperate.
So, two hours, YES, two hours later, I was ready to waffle. Originally, I told him we would not leave, but now it is close to 2 pm and none of us had eaten since breakfast. Justin was crying and shaking and very emotional for most of the time. Danielle was crying and occasionally trying to escape the office. I said a prayer and I gave up. (Guess what, I can't do this, but I can give it to God...)
A rather shocking turn of events for Justin. I told him I was done that Danielle and I were hungry and ready to go home to eat lunch. I also informed him that if he did not get a blood test TODAY that he would lose all computer and video game privileges for a month. (Yes, it is rather extreme, but I was concerned that he was allowing his fear of the unknown to win. He wasn't trusting me or God.) Actually, as I said it I wondered why I hadn't just done that earlier. Now, he doesn't want to leave the office, but he also doesn't want to get the blood test. Finally, we reached a consensus. We would go get lunch and he could calm down and we could come back to the lab and he would get the blood test.
We went and ate lunch and drove back to the lab. I told him that this opportunity was his last chance to get the blood test. I really didn't want him to go home and have to think about it all night. We went in and the nurse came over again to assist Rosie. Justin asked me to come into the room with him. While we were at lunch I told him that he should try to think about what he will be doing after the blood test is over. It even helps if you sing a song in your head to distract yourself. He asked me to sing him a song. Ok, so I am the only one in our family that doesn't sing in key. Now he wanted me to sing in front of him and others without music. Wonderful! The Children's Choir at church (Justin is a member) had recently sung the song "I am a Promise" and that was the first song that came to my mind. I sang it through once and he was done! Alleluiah! Rosie asked him if it was as bad as he thought it was going to be and, of course, he says no. (though I am sure my singing was as bad as I think it was!LOL!)
Recently, I had a friend recommend getting Steve Green's cd "Hide 'em in your Heart". Basically, he takes a Bible verse and turns it into a catchy tune with the help of kids. We had been listening to it in the car. On the way home, I found #5 on the cd titled "When I am Afraid" based on Psalm 56:3-4. When I am afraid, I will trust in you. In God, whose word I praise, in God I trust: I will not be afraid.
I encouraged Justin as we drove home that the next time he is afraid that he should turn to God and trust him.
This story doesn't really fit into that neat box with the pretty bow on top. I am sure there will be other times when Justin is afraid. It is my hope and my prayer that my son will remember this experience and remember that I may not be there to sing him a song, but God's word is there for him. God is always there with him and can be trusted.

I hereby command you: Be strong and courageous; do not be frightened or dismayed, for the Lord your God is with you wherever you go. Joshua 1:9

Christy

Tuesday, May 26, 2009

Charter Renewal Reminder

Reminder that the lowest prices for Charter Renewal ($159 and 1 free membership for every 10) will be going up after May 29, the price of renewal goes to $179 and the membership deal is 1 for 20.

Charter Renewal includes valuable resources for every group to ensure a consistent, excellent MOPS experience! You will receive everything you need to get started, lead and promote your group!

Charter Renewal includes:
Leader’s Library DVD Set
2009 Theme Planning
LIFT Leadership Training
Together on Planet Mom Curriculum
Publicity Templates
Publicity Tool Kit

25 Invite-a-Mom cards
5 MOPS logo pens
2 MOPS bumper stickers
2 MOPS decals
1 “Join Us” poster

Go to http://www.mops.org/leaders/page.php?pageid=1691&srctype=body&src=/leaders/ for more information and to renew today!

Sunday, May 17, 2009

Moms of School-Age Kids Group Needs a Name

Moms of School-age Kids. What should we be called?

MOPS International has received tremendous interest in our new groups for moms of school-age kids. Leaders and moms are excited about this ministry and we are chartering new groups. We initially launched this program under the name “momfluence” after having done due diligence on that name and extensive legal work. We since learned of usage of that name and we have decided to select a new name.



Share your best ideas for a new name today!

Go to this site to particpate: http://www.surveymonkey.com/s.aspx?sm=h1nouLVIWuK_2fCpMstpYjtg_3d_3d

Wednesday, May 13, 2009

Inspirational MOPS Group Video

Hi, I am so excited about this video that I just had to share it with all of you. Tracy Snyder, Coordinator Ebenezer Bible Fellowship MOPS Group in Bethlehem (my MOPS Group), put together this year-end video of our MOPS Group. When she sent it to me...I was inspired! I asked her if it was ok to post to our Zone blog and she gave me permission. I hope you enjoy it as much as I did! Remember as you wrap up your MOPS year that MOPS International exists to encourage, equip and develop every mother of preschoolers to realize her potential as a woman, mother and leader in the name of Jesus Christ.





Thank you for all you do,
Christy

Monday, May 11, 2009

Zone Leadership Training Conference Call

Hi!

I just wanted to remind you that your Zone Field Leaders along with Zone 14 (Western PA & WV) Field Leaders will be hosting our second Zone Leadership Training Conference Call this Thursday, May 14, 2009 from 8:30 - 9:30 pm. It will be on Choosing Leaders for Next Year. Please plan to join us for an interactive discussion. If you have any questions now, please send them. All Steering Team members are invited.

Call # (218) 339-2500
Access Code: 122231#

To prepare for the call, please read and reflect on Matthew 6:25-34. Focus will be put on Matthew 6:33.

But seek first his kingdom and his righteousness, and all things will be given to you as well.

Thank you for all you do,

Christy

Friday, May 01, 2009

Tuesday, April 28, 2009

Summit site: Willowdale Chapel, Kennett Square, PA


Here is a picture of the MOPS leaders who attended Summit at Willowdale Chapel in Kennett Square, PA. We had a blessed time together learning how to lead authentically.
If you attended Summit, please share your greatest take home message or what impacted you most. For me, I loved what Margaret Feinberg shared about combining the public me and the private me into one and trusting God with taking the risk of being that authentic. YIKES...it was a very compelling challenge. I try to live authentically, but that would really be a leap of faith to walk around like an orange with its skin peeled off for all to see my impurities. I'm going to put forth a great effort to live this authentically because I realized people will determine what my impurities are whether I display them or not. I trust I will encounter Jesus on a deeper level...that enough is worth it for me. What about you?
Blessings,
Nichole, your AC

Saturday, April 25, 2009

Sayre, PA Summit Site


Hi, ladies! Did you get to attend Summit 2009? Here's a photo from our site in Sayre, PA. We were pleased to have 55 moms attend our site this year!

Susan Entingh
CC Zone 22
North Central PA

Monday, April 20, 2009

Moms of School-Age Kids

At MOPS International we believe Better Moms Make a Better World. This is true during the preschool years and beyond. As mothers enter the school years, new challenges and issues arise, but the need for community and hope remains. We initially launched this program under the name “momfluence” and we were in the legal process of trade marking when we learned of usage of that name ahead of us in the process. Watch for a new name soon -- and continue to make plans for chartering a new group for moms of school-age kids.

For thirty-six years MOPS International has been reaching out to mothers of preschoolers to encourage, equip and develop them to be better moms. Now this group format will encourage, equip and develop moms in the next phase of mothering. All of the excellent MOPS leadership resources will be available to group leaders as they start groups around the world.

A mother’s influence is great during the school years. Join us as we launch this ministry to reach more mothers with community and hope that is life-changing.

For more information or to start a group for mothers of school-age kids, call 1-888-910-6677 or email charters@MOPS.org.

Go to the Mothers of School-Age Kids Home page at http://www.mops.org/page.php?pageid=2507&srctype=linklist&src=2507 for more details.

Tuesday, March 31, 2009

Connecting with Zephaniah

There are times in my life when I go through the motions just to get through the current moment. I nod my head when it is appropriate and I try to contribute a comment when necessary. Yet, the week that Zephaniah kept appearing in front of me, I was awakened. I stopped going through the motions and started living for God's purpose.

It all began a couple of weeks ago, when I ordered the MOPS DVD Lift: Elevate Your Leadership and sat down and watched it. In the second section, Liz Selzer speaks about our strengths and uses several scripture references. One of them was for Zephaniah 3:17.

"The Lord your God is with you, he is mighty to save. He will take great delight in you, he will quiet you with his love, he will rejoice over you with singing." (NIV)

I remember thinking that I don't often hear people quote from Zephaniah.

Oh, if I only knew.

I was sitting in my Women's Bible Study some days after watching the DVD. We are studying Cynthia Heald's Becoming a Woman of Purpose and we were in Chapter 4 "God's Purpose: To Establish His Kingdom". Question 4 of Chapter 4 references Zephaniah 3:8-9. As we opened our Bibles and read the passages, I commented that I hardly hear about Zephaniah and we ended up reading more of Chapter 3 together.

Zephaniah is a short book, 3 chapters, in the Old Testament after Habakkuk and before Haggai. According to my NIV Study Bible, Zephaniah was a prophet of considerable social standing in Judah and was probably related to the royal line. His intent was to announce to Judah God's approaching judgment and his main theme is the coming of the day of the Lord.

Anyway, as we read through Chapter 3, Rachel, a woman in my Bible study, commented that she really liked the song "Mighty to Save" and was glad to now know where that phrase had originated. She said that when she first heard the song, she had a difficult time figuring out what they were singing. She sang a short verse for us. As our Bible Study leader attempted to get us back on track, it suddenly connected in my head. I happily announced to everyone that Kim Hill sings that song and that I knew it as well.

That song was in my head for the rest of the day. I went home and got out the 3 Kim Hill cds that I have, but couldn't find the song "Mighty to Save" on any of them. Technology is so helpful in these types of situations. I did a search for "Kim Hill Mighty to Save" on Youtube and came up empty, but there was a group called Hillsong that had a video called "Mighty to Save". I listened to it on Youtube (here's the url for anyone curious http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-08YZF87OBQ&feature=related)and suddenly it connects again.

Oh, Kim Hill led us with praise music at this year's MOPS Convention and this was one of the songs. Cool. Then I look at my Kim Hill cds a little closer. She also led praise music at the 2005 MOPS Convention and I stood in line to have her sign my copy of her "Surrounded by Mercy" cd and, guess what she wrote on it?, Zeph. 3:17.

There are times in my life when I go through the motions just to get through the current moment. I nod my head when it is appropriate and I try to contribute a comment when necessary. Yet, the week that Zephaniah kept appearing in front of me, I was awakened. I stopped going through the motions and started living for God's purpose. I read through the book of Zephaniah. I sent an email to everyone in my Monday Women's Bible Study about the connection because I had to share. I sat down and watched the MOPS "Lift: Elevate Your Leadership" DVD again. I encouraged my husband to sit down with me and listen to the "Mighty to Save" song.

Have you had any moments, days, or weeks like that where things start to connect and you see God's purpose working for you? Please share them here with us.

Thank you for all you do,
Christy

Wednesday, March 25, 2009

Zone Conference Call

Our first Zone Training Conference call went well on Monday, March 16th. We had a nice group of leaders join us from our Zone, Zone 22, and Zone 14. If you or your MOPS Steering Team leaders were unable to listen in live on the call, the call was recorded. You can listen to the recording by dialing:

Zone 14 and 22 Training Conference Call
Playback number # (218) 339-2599
Access Code: 122231#

Please let us know your thoughts on the Conference call & be sure to take the survey for what night is best for you for the next call.

Thanks,
Christy

Monday, March 16, 2009

REMINDER Conference Call Tonight at 8:30

Please call in for our first ever Zone Conference call tonight from 8:30 - 9:15 pm.
ALL Steering Team Members are invited

Dial in #: (218) 339-2500
Access code: 122231#


The call will be hosted by our AC, Nichole Bethel, and Gayle Stahlman, AC for Zone 14(Western Pa and WV) It will be an introduction to doing a dual Zone conference call and the topic will be Called to Lead.
The agenda will be as follows:
· Welcome (2min)
· Open with Prayer (2min)
· Introduction (5min)
· Training (15min)
· Q&A (20min)
· Closing Prayer (1min)

Wednesday, March 11, 2009

The Daily Adventure...of Laundry

I'm doing laundry today. At least seven loads of it. (I'm sensing you're either empathizing with me, or panicking that you haven't yet done your own laundry.)

Well, I don't like doing laundry, and I really don't know anyone else who does. There may be one of you out there who does, but you would never publicly admit it, because people like me would think you've been inhaling way too many noxious cleaning product fumes.

I think I've come to a realization, though. I believe God gave us laundry to give us a glimpse, inadequate though it may be, of the concept of eternity. Think about it...you don't really know when laundry began for you, and it's never going to end!

Seriously, though, as I was putting my load of delicate darks into the dryer a few minutes ago, and thought about how much I dislike this monotonous routine, something new came over me. The overwhelming desire to thank God for loving me enough to give me the gift of laundry.

Before you call the people with the white jackets on me, let me share what God just revealed to me.

Here's a list of ways I can be thankful to God for my laundry:
1) Clothes - We have them.
2) My husband and kids - They wear the clothes.
3) Washer and dryer - I have both. They're in my house, so I don't have to go to a laundromat to wash and dry our clothes.
4) Dirt and stains - This means my family is playing, eating, exercising and enjoying life.
5) Laundry detergent, Spray 'N' Wash, bleach, dryer sheets - I can afford to buy all of these things used to clean and "de-static" our clothes.
6) My body - I have a healthy, strong body that enables me to sort, move, pre-treat, load, unload, fold, hang and put away the laundry.
7) Time - I get to be a stay-at-home mom, which gives me plenty of time to do the laundry.

I could probably think of many more things related to laundry that I could thank God for, but soon I'll have to go tend to my "lights".

What, in your daily adventure, can you thank God for? Add them to my post so we can all join in praise and thanksgiving to our God, who alone is worthy to receive it.

And maybe, the next time you consider how wide and long and high and deep is the pile of dirty laundry in your home, you'll also consider how wide and long and high and deep is the love of Jesus Christ for you, sister.

Wednesday, March 04, 2009

2009-2010 MOPS Theme Announced

Be sure to check out the MOPS International leader's website for the new theme for 2009-2010. Also, there will be an article in your March Connections magazine.

http://www.mops.org/leaders/bb/viewtopic.php?t=11790

Tell us your thoughts right here on the blog.
Thanks,
Christy

Tuesday, February 24, 2009

Roadside Assistance

Recently the words "roadside assistance" caught my attention. I immediately thought that if you had to use those words in a sentence there would have to be an adventure story to go with it. That thought reminded me of an adventure I had with my boys over 10 years ago.
We were still fairly new to Jersey Shore PA in 1998. My sons were 1 and 6 years old. We got in the minivan and went to the Lycoming Mall. I can't recall why we went to the mall that day, but it is a bit of a drive. On the way home, while driving on the highway, I noticed that the van was making a strange pinging noise. It didn't feel safe for me to be driving with the kids on a highway with a strange noise emitting from the engine, so I exited in Williamsport (about halfway home from the mall) and pulled into the Pep Boys. I unloaded the boys and silently prayed that the noise was not too serious. One of the mechanics went out and checked the van.
Ugh, I do not like to admit my weaknesses, but I don't know too much about cars. (Fill them with gas, get the oil changed & tires rotated every so often, and make sure there are some children's cds in there to entertain Danielle.) I feel uncomfortable in repair shops and usually let my husband handle the details. Even if I did understand everything that the mechanic said to me, remember that I am in a Pep Boys with a 6-year-old and 1-year-old. My attention was divided. When he came back, he said many things to me, but in the conversation I heard that I shouldn't drive the van anywhere because the engine could blow. (ok, slow down and take some deep breaths) I quickly called my husband at work, about a 45-minute drive away, and he was sympathetic to my plight, but was unable to leave work early. He said he could probably get there in the next 2-3 hours.

WHAT???

I didn't want to be sitting in a Pep Boys for 2 or more hours with my children. We were going to have the car towed to our repair shop in Lock Haven, but I didn't think I would be able to get two car seats and me in the tow truck too.
I was not very happy. I was probably near tears trying to figure out an alternative.
Then it happened.
One of those God moments. (I think some people call them coincidences.)
Deanna, from my MOPS group, came into the Pep Boys. What were the chances? She heard parts of my conversation when she came over to say hi to me and then without a moment's hesitation, she offered us a ride home.
THANK YOU GOD!
Thank you Deanna!
I had not been a member of my MOPS group for very long and Deanna and I only knew each other through a couple of meetings. She rescued me that day.
Who knew that I would eventually become the Coordinator of the group and Deanna would serve on Steering with me and we would become good friends?
It is those small moments that sometimes get forgotten that really helped me build friendships within my MOPS group.
It all happened so quickly, but I know in the moment that I was very grateful to Deanna. I didn't have to hang out at Pep Boys for a couple of hours with my boys. I didn't even have much time to be too stressed about it.
That memory remained tucked away and almost forgotten and then I heard the words "roadside assistance" and I recalled an adventure that ultimately brought me closer to God.
Do you have a MOPS adventure like that? Please share.

Tuesday, February 10, 2009

New Year's Resolutions: How Are You Doing?

It's February 10th, the 41st day of 2009. Did you make any New Year's resolutions? If so, how are you doing? I'm sure that question will have a variety of answers such as, I'm right on track; I've steered off a little, but getting back on track; I'm off track; and my all time favorite, what is a track? The good news is wherever you are with your New Year's resolutions, you are not alone.

Phil 3:13b-14 says, "Forgetting what is behind and straining toward what is ahead, I press on toward the goal to win the prize for which God has called me heavenward in Christ Jesus." One of Webster's definitions for the word strain is excessive tension or exertion. Now it all makes sense. No wonder many of us have struggled to keep up with our New Year's resolutions: they require hard work. Well, wasn't that the point? You don't jump off a roller coaster ride once you realize it's more than you originally bargained for, right? I know some of you are thinking, I NEVER got on the roller coaster in the first place. Humor me anyway by not focusing on the hard work (strain) it takes to achieve the goal, but think about what you'll gain once the goal is achieved. I love focusing on outcomes.

Our kids had always been homeschooled. Last spring, my husband and I decided to send our 4 children to school outside of the home starting in September 2008. I was terrified of what this new beginning would require of us including, keeping up with 4 different teachers, hectic schedules, and homework. The transition has been very painful. I feel like I am straining everyday to achieve what is expected of us. This morning I was deep in thought about it all and decided to call my beloved husband, Keith, on his way to work and asked, "Do you have a plan for how we are going to finish this school year well?" My loving and wise husband recognized this was potentially a very loaded question, so he asked, "Do you have something on your mind that you would like to share with me?" I love when he answers my question with a question. The truth is, I didn't. I know in order to reach the goal, which is completing the school year successfully, we have to forget what is behind (poor test scores and name calling) and continue straining ahead (get tutors, meet with teachers, talk to our kids regularly about how to handle unpleasant situations). I n the end, I know this outcome is well worth the strain.

So, I ask you again, how are you doing with those New Year's resolutions? Don't answer, just keep straining ahead, knowing you are heading toward somewhere good. As women, mothers, and leaders, be encouraged that as we continue to develop, we are equipped to strain across the finish line.

Monday, February 02, 2009

Optimism: Where can I get some??



OPTIMISM. Bath and Body Works is selling it all bottled up as an aromatherapy. I admit that I shop there, but this discussion isn't about where I shop. Perhaps we can discuss that at another time. No, this discussion is about what I want. I got the coolest flyer in the mail with a picture similar to the one here and inside there was a coupon for "a free aromatherapy body care or home fragrance item of your choice with any purchase of $15 or more". I couldn't stop my mind from wandering and I thought "Wow, I could really use some optimism right about now."

Within the flyer, it says "Optimism: jump-start your day with confidence and a smile! Our newest Aromatherapy Collection for body and home is a bright blend of jasmine, tuberose and mate(accent over the e)absolutes to help lift your mood and instill a sense of optimism."
Ok, so I don't really know what tuberose and mate(accent over the e) absolutes are but they must be some pretty powerful scents mixed in with jasmine to help lift that mood that I'm in. I want some. Give me, give me, give me.

Before I go out and get my free bottle of optimism (after a $15 purchase), I was inspired to check on the definition. My The New Merriam-Webster Dictionary has this definition:
op.ti.mism:an inclination to anticipate the best possible outcome of actions or events

Super, that is what I really want right now to anticipate the best possible outcome of actions or events. WOW! I really want some optimism when I see people's homes going to foreclosure, so many job cuts every time I open the paper and read the news, and friends and their families falling ill and struggling. Being bombarded with the recession and how it is affecting everyone has really made it difficult not to worry. (sigh) I start to worry, then I get myself a little worked up, and then I become a downer. It is all I can think about and all I can talk about and it consumes me and my life. So, ok, give me that bottle of optimism, I am ready.

Wait a second. Slow down sister. Let me think. There is a way for me to get some optimism and I don't think I need a coupon. It doesn't come in a bottle either. I think I can find it in the Bible. If I truly want to "jump-start my day with confidence and a smile" I can turn to God. It sounds almost too good to be true in advertising "jump-start my day with confidence and a smile", but isn't that (and, oh, so much more) what God offers us through a relationship with him.

Looking at the MOPS International theme verse for this year helps me to understand that through my relationship with God and through the Holy Spirit (verse 16), Christ is a part of me and I can know God's love.
“…so that Christ may dwell in your hearts through faith. And I pray that you, being rooted and established in love, may have power, together with all the saints, to grasp how wide and long and high and deep is the love of Christ.” Ephesians 3:17-18

We also have the much-loved and well-known verse:
"For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life." John 3:16
Knowing that I have eternal life should help me start my day with confidence and a smile.

Maybe I will use that coupon or perhaps I will let it expire, but it doesn't really matter because I know that when I am down, I can turn to God. I can start my day with confidence and a smile by renewing my relationship with him and refreshing my attitudes with his Word. I am "optimistic" that no matter what happens, God is with me.

Thanks,
Christy

Thursday, January 22, 2009

How's Your Fruit?

Something other than my alarm clock awakened me this morning. It was unpleasant... annoying...irritating. It was my daughter.

The instigator: my son. The crime: inequitable distribution of cereal. Why, oh why, must we live in a world of finite resources? It's so unfair!

But that's not my point. My point is, I didn't want to deal with this. I was annoyed, irritated by this meltdown of magnificent proportions. So, I acted swiftly. I yelled at her to go to her room immediately. She did. There. Problem solved.

Well, not so much. After another 20 minutes of tantrum-throwing that I feared would wake our wall-sharing neighbors (I enjoyed a brief reprieve while I brushed my teeth and the running water drowned out her shrieks), I did finally take real action. (And no, I didn't inflict physical punishment -- in case you were wondering.)

Later in the day, after she and her completely innocent and falsely accused brother departed for school, I happened to be reading the words penned by Matthew, the apostle.

In Chapter 13, verse 31, Matthew writes, "Immediately Jesus reached out his hand and caught him. 'You of little faith,' he said, 'why did you doubt?'" Jesus was talking to Peter, just after he had walked out onto the lake's water in faith, but then allowed doubt and fear to distract him from looking at Jesus.

But did you notice how the verse starts with the word "immediately?" That's what caught my eye this morning. Jesus acted immediately. Even though Peter looked away, Jesus immediately reached out to save him. He didn't hesitate -- wondering if Peter was worth it, pondering His annoyance at Peter's lack of faith, irritated at the inconvenience of it all -- His act of love was immediate.

In an in-the-moment prayer, I asked God, "Why is it so hard to put my faith into action? Why is it so hard to be fruitful? To show love? Patience? Kindness? Gentleness? Faithfulness? How can I do that without hesitation?" (You recognize some of these words as the Fruit of the Spirit, right?)

How is your Fruit? Mine could be better. Jucier. Tastier. More abundant.

The IVP New Testament Commentary says with regard to this passage of Scripture in Matthew, "Jesus is training disciples who will not simply regurgitate his oral teachings but will have the faith to demonstrate his authority in practice as well."

With the training we receive through God's word, God's ministers, and fellow followers of Christ, let's all strive to be better practicers, demonstrators and imitators of our Savior, and give God the glory, great things He has done!

Tuesday, January 20, 2009

Zone 22 Council B Meeting Pictures

Hi Everyone,

I had 19 MOPS Steering Team Leaders attend our Council Meeting on Saturday, January 17. I was able to take some pictures of the group and wanted to share with all of you.
If you aren't sure what a Council Meeting is or want to know if your Steering Team is invited to a Council meeting, please leave a comment and your Zone 22 Field Leaders will get you the information you need. As you know, some groups do not have a Council Coordinator and we are always praying that moms in our Zone will answer God's call to fill these roles. Please let us know if you have any questions or if you are feeling called.
Thanks,
Christy

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Sunday, January 18, 2009

KidsLink Downrange ~ MOPS Service Project

KidsLink Downrange is a service project for all MOPS groups to help military moms and their families! MOPS groups will create card kits for kids whose parent is deployed. Kits will be delivered to kids at Fort Hood, Texas this spring.

MOPS groups will design card kits that contain everything a military child will need to write to his or her parent throughout the year. In this way, children who are separated from a parent can still have the vital interaction they need with their parent as they grow and develop. Anyone can choose to be a part of this project – all it takes is a little time and creativity. View instructions here.

Card kits will be sent by groups to Cadence International in Colorado and delivered by the Military Children’s Ministry staff at Fort Hood elementary schools. There is an imminent need for MOPS groups to help create card kits for kids there! Our goal is to send 5,000 card kits to the 70,000+ kids living in the Fort Hood area. Registration ends February 15, 2009.

Pledge your participation today!

Click on the KidLink Downrange header at the top of this blog and you can go to the MOPS website for additional information. I have checked out the KidsLink Downrange MOPS page and I am so encouraged to see that several groups in our Zone have already pledged their support. Please share your thoughts and ideas about this service project with us here on the blog.

Friday, January 16, 2009

MOPS International Survey ~ Closes 1/30/09

As your Field Leaders, we are praying for energy, passion and excitement for you, your Steering Team, Discussion Group Leaders and moms as you begin the new year and the second half of our MOPS year.
We're also praying for you to lean on God’s strength as you continue to serve the Lord faithfully. Like you, We are also evaluating our ministry efforts and would love your input on how we're doing.
This survey is being conducted by MOPS International and groups throughout the MOPS organization are being asked to complete this survey.
Click here to provide your input.
http://www.surveymonkey.com/s.aspx?sm=RGQGoiqueajxANk0LfHvnw_3d_3d

Monday, January 05, 2009

Leadership for Life Summit

Hi!
Happy New Year to all of you! I hope that everyone had a happy and healthy holiday with your family and friends. If you had a MOPS meeting that you would like to share with us, please do so here.
I wanted to remind everyone that the MOPS Leadership for Life Summit scheduled for April 25, 2009 registration is now open on the MOPS website.
http://www.mops.org/page.php?pageid=1331&srctype=menu
Our Zone has 3 locations hosting the Summit: Manor Brethren in Lancaster PA, Willowdale Chapel in Kennett Square PA and Athens Wesleyan in Sayre. Hopefully, one of these locations is convenient for you and your Steering Team.
Please be sure to discuss this with your Team and plan to attend together.
Also, let your Council Coordinator know if you are going, so she can plan to see you there.
God Bless,
Christy